RedwoodLady

5 hours ago, KPaulG said:

How's everything going now?

My son will be recovering for the next couple months.  Continued prayers will be appreciated.  Thank you.

3 hours ago, KPaulG said:

How's everything going now?

Thank you for checking in 

I saw the doctor the other day and he said I am doing as is to be expected at this stage of the game.  However, since my son was injured last weekend it has been hard for me to take it easy. He requires a lot of attention right now.

Continued prayers would be appreciated.  Thank you.

Thank you all for your prayers. 

Please pray for my 18 year old son was injured in an ATV accident this past weekend.  He was air lifted to a hospital 4 hours away.   He broke three bones in his leg with compound fractures and had to undergo surgery to repair the damage.    BUT we are praising God that his injuries weren't worse. 

He is home now and has a long recovery ahead of him.  Please pray specifically that the pain will stay well-managed and that his leg will heal properly.

Thank you. 

42 minutes ago, JNMRR said:

Well yes he has blamed me for his health problems sometimes but it's not about that.

I myself want to marry him so he is not forcing me. 

JNMMR,

I believe the posters in this thread are sincerely concerned for you.  They have shared the truth of God's Word that believers are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. (2 Corinthians 6:14) You know that you will be in sin if you decide to marry this man.  As I said in my first response in this thread -- now you have to make a choice.  Are you going to obey God, or willfully choose to disobey? 

This will be my last response in this thread, but I want to leave you with some verses to think about. 

"Now, therefore, fear the Lord and serve  Him in sincerity and truth; and put away the gods which your fathers served beyond the River and in Egypt, and serve the Lord, if it is disagreeable in your sight to serve the Lord,  choose for yourselves today whom you will serve: whether the gods which your fathers served which were beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you are living; but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.  The people answered and said, 'Far be it from us that we should forsake the Lord to serve other gods.' "  Joshua 24:14-16  (bolding is mine)

Who are you going to serve, JNMMR?  I will continue to pray for you. 

7 minutes ago, JNMRR said:

My feelings to him and his health problems. I am pretty sure he would die (no i am not trying to predict his death but really he has been near death couple times already because our fights) if i left him because he can't stand it. I can't stand leaving him either and if he died because of that, i could not live with myself and that guilt.

Is your boyfriend emotionally manipulating you to marry him?  Is he making you feel guilty for his health problems?

Some people use their health as a way to manipulate a response from others.  I sure hope he isn't trying to guilt you into marrying him.

1 minute ago, JNMRR said:

Hello! Thank you for the message. I just posted here the answer you can read it

I just saw your response. 

1 minute ago, JNMRR said:

Again i need to repeat myself it seems. 

I told the situation is hard for me so it is not maybe possible to leave him. 

Hi again, JNMRR. 

This is the second time you have said this.  I responded a couple posts back to the same statement I bolded above.  Please take a look and see what I said.

31 minutes ago, JNMRR said:

Yes he does not live in Finland and it's possible i would need to marry him either in his country or here while i visit him or he visit me. Later then move together to Finland.

God but i am not doing something just when somebody tells me i should not. I listen to my insides and pray about it. 

Even if i married him, it does not mean i am damned to hell. 

Maybe my situation is too hard so it is not possible to leave him.

Hello, JNMRR. 

I have been following this thread and praying for you to make a Christ-honoring decision.  I also posted a response to you several pages back.  One thing that is standing out to me is your statement that I bolded above.

You say your situation is hard and that makes it impossible to leave him.  Are you in danger?  Is there someone forcing you into this relationship?  You may send me a private message if you don't want to respond to the group. 

I am concerned for you, Dear.

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4 hours ago, JNMRR said:

If the christian fell in love before becoming closer to god and starting to follow him? If the relationship started before this person became a real christian wanting to follow god and now the christian loves this muslim and can't leave him?

Then you would have a choice to make:  either obey God or choose to disobey Him.  God says not to be unequally yolked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14).  Obeying God enables us to walk with His blessing on our lives.  God's commands are for our good.

Choosing to go your own way by marrying someone you know God forbids you to marry will result in heartache.  You can try to convince yourself that you will be happy marrying this person, but if you are walking in disobedience to God you are guaranteeing yourself a life of struggle.

Jesus commands husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the church. (Ephesians 5:25)  How can a man do that when he doesn't know Jesus to begin with?  Don't you want a Christian husband who will love you and cherish you the way God originally planned it to be in marriage?  You will be settling for something less than God's best for you if you decide to willfully marry an unbeliever.