my family fights nearly every day, we have always done this, we fight about everything and anything. its like we're addicted we can't stop, my sister Denise died in 2003 of stomach cancer. she was the one who stopped the fights, my grandma told me that God took her because she was tired of all the fighting. now im afraid the same thing will happen to my other sister bernice, she's only 36 my other sister was only 30 when she died. we need help, my mother has a mental illness but likes to start fights and arguements to get attention. i'm told that its not her fault its her mental illness, but if you knew her you would see its not a disability. i don't know what to do, i prayed that God would take bernice because our father went to prison when i was nine months old, we have never really had a mother. my sister berince has been taking care of the family since she was 12, my mom does have issues. she has been abused in many ways as a child, as an adult she's it hard to explain but we need prayer. I don't know what to pray for anymore.