While I do not dispute that God lives in us (John 14:23) and that He does the good work through us (Philippians 2:13). He also does not force us to do good against our free will.
As for your statement that says, “It isn't thou shall not”:
This is contrary to what our Lord Jesus said. Please see the words of Jesus that are bolded below.
Matthew 19
16“And, behold, one came and said unto him, Good Master, what good thing shall I do, that I may have eternal life? 17And he said unto him, Why callest thou me good? there is none good but one, that is, God: but if thou wilt enter into life, keep the commandments. 18He saith unto him, Which? Jesus said, Thou shalt do no murder, Thou shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt not steal, Thou shalt not bear false witness, 19Honour thy father and thy mother: and, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.”
In Romans 13:8-10, Paul says you fulfill these laws by loving your neighbor. So they are still in effect.
Revelation 22:14-15 says,
[14] “Blessed are they that do his commandments, that they may have right to the tree of life, and may enter in through the gates into the city. [15] For without are dogs, and sorcerers, and whoremongers, and murderers, and idolaters, and whosoever loveth and maketh a lie.”
Also see Revelation 21:8.