We did everything wrong in our relationship. Second marriage for both of us. Met on the Internet...Lived together for 4 years before we were married...she had a seven your old daughter...who was being raised in this ungodly environment......but God can always get good out of bad situations.....both my wife and I had been raised in a church.. but we did it our way.....but you know what...the child brought us both to Jesus Christ...she went to church with a friend and prayed for us ...before we were even married....and encouraged us to participate in church....I had already started picking up the bible and was reborn in a barn....and knew we had to be with God's children in church...because we were childen of God...so we went together as a family to church ... once we took the lord jesus into our hearts and our lives...we had to make decisions....move out? or get married...I was ready to move out...but that wasn't God's will....this woman and child was destined for me from above...and we were married...and even though we did everything wrong God sanctified this marriage...he gave us a do over... even though we were wrong...we was loved...I reflect on my past and even though I was a complete prideful, selfish, screw up....Almighty God....pulled me and my family through this mess...by cleaning me up and restoring my heart and mind...it is all about God's Love.....God's holy word is to be read in love and used in love....God desire for us is to love him and to love one another...for those that can accept him he waits with open arms and eternal life....I've committed about every sin in the 10 commandments except murdering somebody and I probably murdered some people with my mouth....I shared this with you because sometimes people think their life is so screwed up and no hope...that is the biggest lie from the biggest liar......satan.....Jesus didn't come to condemn the world but to save us....I don't encourage living together..it is not God's desire for his children...but if you have fallen for some of those snares and traps turn to Jesus and press forward...
