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Be assured that I'm seeking God about this daily. I will continue to do so, because the dreams and visions haven't stopped. The guy isn't the type of man I wanted, so I'm sure this is none of my doing. I was stressing about this and trying to figure it out, because I didn't want to be tricked by the enemy. That was my BIGGEST concern for real. I mean....who wants to be misled? Who wants to "think" they're hearing from God, and then find out it was the enemy all along? I figured if I shared it with some other Christian women, they could tell me how they'd feel if it was happening to them. That's all. I didn't mean to cause a stir or start any controversy, if I did. But, now I'm waiting on God. He allowed it to happen...so whatever the outcome, it's in his control. It's time for me to leave it alone. Thanks for all the words of wisdom.

Thank you Mr.Mrs. Ike. I thought no one wanted to help me with this matter. So, I forgot about it. I just happened to come on the site to view another forum and saw that a few others had responded to my message. I really, really, appreciate your input. I've started buying books and reading all the literature I can about prophecy, because I want to make sure what I hear or see is from God. So, if there's anything you can tell me to help me on this journey, I'd appreciate it. You have such an humble spirit, but you tell the truth. That's a rare find. Thanks again.

Finding out the guy is my husband was a prophecy. I'm new here though, so I didn't know exactly where to put it.

Hello my peeps! What's happening? I hope all is well and that everybody is looking forward to spending the holidays with their loved ones. OK, on to the matter. I've already shared with you all about the visions of my future husband. Well, I shared the visions with a friend of mine and she was very amazed. She even praised God for giving me the confirmations that he's my husband. But something happened down the road. We were talking one night and out of the blue she told me that I deserve someone better than him; that I deserve a man who will love me as much as I would him. Did I miss something here? I don't even know the man yet. Neither does he know me. We see one another 3 or 4 times a year during district functions, but that's it. We haven't even had a chance to talk because I get tongue-tied when he tries to talk to me. So, I don't know what she's talking about. Then again, maybe she said that because he stopped talking to me after I started stalking him. Well, can you blame him? Anyways, we got past that and he'll shake my hand or greet me now. She found out that my dentist was interested in dating me and tried to encourage me to date him. And one day she told me that women are more accepting then men, because men want a woman to look a certain way. After that, she asked me if I thought God would send a man/woman a mate whom they didn't find attractive at all. She probably asked me that because I told her that...ummm....my future husband isn't the kind of man I would prefer to date. But, if I'm willing to accept him, then why should she worry about it? From reading my post, you probably think the guy is attracted to her, or that she found out something about him. But, it's neither. I've talked to his god-mother and she keeps me updated. Anyways, something is wrong. One night we went to see our pastor's wife preach at my future husband's church. When the service was over, she walked up to him and rubbed him on his shoulder. He turned around and shook her hand, then he turned and shook my hand too. This bothers me because if she really believes God showed me this man is my future husband, then why would she try to turn me away from him? There are only two things I know that could be going on: Either she wants him herself or she doesn't believe God showed me he's my husband. Either way it makes me feel like I can't trust her. What's your take on it?

What are we going to do with Biblicist? You are sooo funny! But seriously, I appreciate all of your comments. You guys are the greatest!!!! There was so much godly wisdom in what you said. I just love it! Wow Kupa. I'm sorry about what you're going through. That IS hard. I've loved a guy too and found out that he was going to marry someone else. All I could do is cry and pray. But, if God showed you that man is going to be your husband, it will happen. He's a God of his word and he won't lie. So be encouraged. And as you all have told me, wait on God. Me and Elder H. attend different churches, but we're both Church of God In Christ. We have district functions every 3 or 4 months, so that's the only time I get to see him. He's an elder and youth pastor, so he's either facilitating the program or talking to somebody. I've known about him for about 15 years, I think. It's funny because the first time I saw him, I told the Lord, "He looks like a nice saved man. He'd be a good husband." I didn't know he was going to be my husband though! Well, since I've opened this can of worms, I'm going to let them all out. About 2 years ago, an older lady from my church told me that he was interested in me. I got excited because I'm not Ms. Thang, so the men don't pause when I walk into the room. (If you know what I mean). Well, he used to hug me all the time, so I figured that's the reason. To make a long story short, I started calling him (he didn't give me his number) and writing him little notes. Obviously he didn't appreciate that because he started avoiding me. Oh yeah, it was terrible. Anyways, I realized that I made him uncomfortable so I apologized to him. After that, he started talking to me again. Now here's where things get amusing to me. He started doing "little" things to get my attention. In fact, he was the one that started initiating all the handshakes and greetings. I figured I had come on too strong. So, I just decided to back off. One Saturday, during our youth conference, I was standing in the gym watching the kids play basketball and he came and stood in the corner behind me. Then, he walked up and stood beside me. Well, I didn't know what to do, so I didn't say anything. Plus, I thought he wasn't interested in me. So, I didn't know what to think. Anyways, since things happened that way, I was convinced he wasn't interested so I forgot about him. Then, I started praying to God for a husband again. I've always heard people say ask God for the kind of mate you want. So, I did. I told God how I wanted him to look and everything. Ofcourse he has to be saved and filled with the Holy Spirit. That's not optional. But, I did tell the Lord he knew what I needed. So, let his will be done. About 2 or 3 months later I started seeing Elder H. in visions. I was like what???? Lord you mean after all that, this man is my husband??? I was blown away! I couldn't believe it so I started asking the Lord over and over again, is he the one? And time, after time, after time, God showed me he's the one. After I acknowledged that he is my husband, I told the Lord I don't see how that can be because he never talks to me. Then I asked the Lord to give us an opportunity to talk. The Lord showed me the time he came and sat beside me so that we could talk, and the time he came and stood beside me in the gym. Well, I missed them. Geez Louise!! Duhhh. :crazy Anyway, I just wanted to fill you in on everything so you'd know more about the situation.

Biblicist you are so funny!

Hello. I'm back again. I just want to get your opinions on something. But, it has to do with prophecy. If you don't believe in that sort of thing, that's o.k with me. But, if you don't, be a sweetheart and hold your comments. I don't mean any harm by saying that. But, I've shared it with some people already. And they got so offended that....well.........let's just say they forgot to let brotherly love continue. OK, here goes. I've been praying to God for a husband for a long time. In December of last year, I started seeing a certain man in visions over and over again. I didn't know what was going on, so I asked the Lord if he was trying to show me something. He didn't answer me right way. But, the visions continued. I started asking God if the man is my husband. A few nights later I had a dream. I was sitting at a table looking at a magazine when a little girl came up to me. My back was turned to the side. But, I could see myself pointing at a picture in a magazine. I asked her, "Who is this?" She said, "That's Elder H." (I'll call him that to protect his identity). Then, the magazine turned around so I could see the picture. When it turned around, there was a picture of Elder H. right in front of my face. So, I started to believe that the man is my husband. Well, I like to make sure that whatever I dream about or whatever vision I see is from the Lord. So, I asked the Lord for a confirmation. That was about 6 months ago. But, I've had 5 dreams in which Elder H. has asked me if the Lord had showed me that I'm his wife. You may wonder why I had 6 dreams???? Well....I kept asking the Lord for a confirmation. And, everytime I asked him for a confirmation, he sent one. So, I feel that Elder H. is definitely my husband. Now, here's the other part of the situation. When we see one another, we only shake hands, and tell one another it's nice to see you. He hasn't asked me out. Nor have I asked him. He does seem glad to see me. But, I wonder why he hasn't talked to me about us yet? Well, that's my story. So tell me what you would think if you were in my shoes.