nomerhunks

No, you are not being selfish. I think you are thinking about the long term effect, that's why. But that is not being selfish. You are just being wise. They should also consider your situation now. I pray that you find the best solution and what's best for everyone.

Pray to God to help you overcome the hate that you are feeling right now, and for the other person as well although it may be hard for you or perhaps you are having a hard time to pray for him because of the pain and indifference you feel for him. But remember that through prayers, we can put our minds and heart at ease. Just keep on praying and God will surely bless you after you overcome this. God bless!