It's one thing to assist your parents with their activities at home, but it's quite another to take on all the extra things that your mum would do if she were the one doing them. From my perspective, this appears to be a communication breakdown. From my perspective, I think it would be valuable to sit down with your mum and reinforce the idea that you love them and want to help keep things running smoothly at home, and that you want to help others, but you'd prefer to be the one to offer your services (such as shuttling others to and from events). If your mum understands that doing these extra things is stressing you out, wouldn't she want to avoid that? I just think there needs to be some extra discussions around this issue so that everyones' needs are met. God bless you as you work through this with her.
