TeaRose

Got a question about signs from God. How can you tell if something is definitley a sign? Im currently having marriage trouble ( I posted about this in other sections ). Long story short... my husband wants to split up, and I dont. I told him I would leave if thats what he wants. I prayed to God asking for a sign telling me what I should do. Yesterday was our anniversary, and I left a card for my husband to find last night. I went to bed and I dreamt that my husband appologised to me for the way hes been behaving with me, and he gave me a kitten as a gift. Today, my husband asked me ( in a grumpy tone ), "When are you leaving?". I assumed this was the sign that I should give up on our marriage. Later, I was thinking about the dream when I heard something outside. It was a cat sitting on our back fence looking at me ( this is the first time this happened to me ). The timing, to me, was interesting. I brought this up to someone here who I consider a very good friend. And, she mentioned maybe this was a sign. So, I figured I would ask you good people whats your take on it? And, how do I know for sure what God wants me to do?

I agree with the others. I cant believe God would tell you to make a choice like that. Satan hates it when we pray. Maybe he was trying to get you to stop praying. Why would there be any connection with your father being healed and the guy you love?

Thank you all for your prayers and kind responses. . I had a meeting woth the boss, and he confirmed I will not lose my job over the issue. I truly believe our prayers were answered. Thank you, everyone! Having said that, Im wondering if Im cut out for this job. So, I will be praying that I find one that suits me. Im not looking to get rich, I just want to find something that is a better fit for me...not sure what that is. My husband is still being weird with me. Just yesterday, he was still saying to me that he still wants to be on his own . Today, hes speaking normally ( I never know what to expect from day to day ). He isnt asking for a divorce...just to be separated. Im his second wife. His first wife ( Ive been told by him, his family, and friends ) was really horrible to him. They also said Im nothing like her. I tried my best to be a good wife, but feel like I failed. He said he doesnt hate me...but it sure feels like it sometimes . He is disabled, and his health is getting worse ( it wasnt good when we first met, but it didnt stop me from falling in love with him ). So, I wonder if he feels hes a burden to me. And, that maybe hes doing the "cruel to be kind" thing by pushing me away. He told me its not me thats the problem, and that I will find someone else. But, I love him. Ive asked God to heal him/ease his pain. He seems to be on the fence about believing in God. Some days he does, others he doesnt.

Im having a really rough time right now...trying to keep my head up and keep the faith. But, I need help with this... My husband and I had a great relationship, but recently, he has told me he is no longer in love with me and wants us to split up. Couselling is out of the question because he tried that with his first wife, and it didnt work. I have to say it didnt help me either when I was suicidal. Of course, I want to save our marriage, and tried everything I could...but he wont change his mind. On top of that, I really messed up in work, and I may lose my job over it. If I lose my job, not only will it make my marriage worse, but I will have no income at all. I could move back in with my dad, but hes having a hard time making ends meet as it is, I dont want to be a burden, and I know he would be heartbroken for me which would make him angrier at God ( hes already mad at God because of why I was suicidal ). Ive been praying to God to help me, but Im terrified now because my future doesnt look good at all. Im hardly eating, feeling sick, and bursting into tears. Im just feeling the lowest I have ever felt right now...totally hopeless... Can anyone offer me any advice/reassurance, or tell me how they prayed, and if their prayers were answered?