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If a born again Christian commits suicide will they lose their salvation?

To send an update on this situation. IT has gotten worse if that's possible. My wife has not budged and will not meet with our daughter until she has "repented properly" My wife and I went to talk with our pastors and she told them that I didn't agree with them and they had a problem with it and said that I had broken their hearts. And now when I need it most they will not counsel with me because of that. In the mean time my daughter has up and moved from Colorado to Pennsylvania and has left for good I fear as she is heartbroken again. I felt that I needed to apologize to my wife for going on without her so that I could create some peace, but she will not forgive me and even though we still live in the same house it is more like room mates and not as a married couple. I have tried to be tender to her but have only received rejection. Now she is going to her cousins house in L.A. after Christmas and asked that I not come with her. I am heartbroken in despair and have no one to talk too. I feel as if this marriage and family is a lost cause and am in constant stress and heartache and can't go on.

Thanks for your heart for me and my family. I go to a non denominational christian church.

Thank you all for your encouragement it lifts me up and strengthens me. I am coming against great opposition and need your continued prayers. God bless

Where did you move it?

It is a non denomination Christian church

I am a newbie here and actually posted this in the wrong place so I will try again. My wife and I have 4 children (blended family), who we raised in a Christian home and church. About ten years ago they all walked away from God over a 2 year period. As this happened by counsel of Church leaders we cut off all contact with them except for occasional run ins. I have in my heart thought that this was not the proper way to act and approached my wife but she will not budge saying only after they are right with God should we have a relationship with them. I feel that the lord has been asking me to open communication with my children and I have reached out and started communicating one of my daughters. (BTW they are all in their late 20s to early 30s now) I did this without my wife knowing, and the still small voice told me that I should tell her. She became livid and said that because I started doing this without her that I was cheating on her and that I was being used by the enemy and has threatened to leave me. I know that If I were to bring this up to our Pastors that I would be chastised and told that I was getting in the way of Gods work. I however do believe that is not right and have no where to turn to or talk too am just really torn up inside.

Hello My wife and I have 4 children (blended family) they are all adults now ( late 20s-early 30s ). they were all brought up in a Christian home going to a Christian church. About 10 years ago they each walked away from god over a 2 year period. By the counsel of church leaders we cut of all contact with them except for occasional runins. Over the years I have been convicted that this was not the proper course of action and have talked to my wife but she refuses to budge. I recently started to reconnect with 1 of my daughters but did this without my wife knowing. I didn't feel right about this and told her and she became livid and called this a form of cheating. I told her that I believe god has told me to open the doors of communication with my children.She is still really angry and we fight about this a lot. I know that If I try to talk to my pastors they will tell me that I am interfering in gods work. I however disagree and told my wife these feelings and she is now talking of me being in step with the enemy and has talked of leaving me. I don't know where to turn.