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JNMRR

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  1. Thank your for this long message and thank you for telling me your story But i start feel like people are dooming me to hell if i marry this man? Like if i marry him i can not go to heaven just because i disobeyed god? I do ask forgiveness from my sins and wish not to repeat them asking god to give me strength but this is another issue. I would not marry him any soon though. It would be after 2 or even 5 years from this so i have a lot time to consider everything.
  2. Well yes he has blamed me for his health problems sometimes but it's not about that. I myself want to marry him so he is not forcing me.
  3. Hello! Thank you for the message. I just posted here the answer you can read it
  4. My feelings to him and his health problems. I am pretty sure he would die (no i am not trying to predict his death but really he has been near death couple times already because our fights) if i left him because he can't stand it. I can't stand leaving him either and if he died because of that, i could not live with myself and that guilt.
  5. Again i need to repeat myself it seems. I told the situation is hard for me so it is not maybe possible to leave him.
  6. Like for example about the topic of modesty is one that i have similiar thoughts with them.
  7. Yes. I'm happy to hear you trust me, and how you have been friendly and loving in your responses.
  8. Yes he does not live in Finland and it's possible i would need to marry him either in his country or here while i visit him or he visit me. Later then move together to Finland. God but i am not doing something just when somebody tells me i should not. I listen to my insides and pray about it. Even if i married him, it does not mean i am damned to hell. Maybe my situation is too hard so it is not possible to leave him.
  9. I thought i told here already that I AM A CHRISTIAN GIRL, NOT MUSLIM! I do believe that we get to heaven by accepting Jesus and not by good works. I do have similiar thoughts with Muslims but i am not one. I don't know really why everybody seem so hateful in here and replying with anger. I watched a document Islam Revisited by Pastor Steve Wohlberg and he interviewed people there. He did not seem hateful at all and he acknowledge how we both are children of Abraham and tell about the similiarities of Christianity and Islam and how to tell about Jesus to Muslims. I recommend it to you all!
  10. No i do not need to state that mohammed is a prophet of god which seem not clear to you. I don't need to marry by islamic way, the marrying can happen just by papers at the embassy if we live in different countries without any imams or religious men around.
  11. It's hard to say anything here anyway thanks for the advices. I'm not telling jokes here or anything btw
  12. It is not a good idea but i need to make compromises. He demands or have already decided they would be muslims so i can not do much more than tell the children about jesus if we would ever have them.
  13. So you suggest we should not have children even if we would marry ? Because that was option i was thinking while ago. I have watched this movie and read book about christian women who married muslims and then escaped. Not all men are like them though.
  14. They can convert to christianity but the only issue is they can get death threats like other people who have converted from islam to christianity.
  15. We have gone through so much things and quarreling that most people would have broke up long time ago in same situation.. there won't be much anything new to this. I won't be forced and i can't be forced. I know him very well and how he can be.
  16. I know. I can agree with you on this though that it won't be easy and it will be a spiritual battle. I said him i won't be a muslim and it is ok to him even though he wish i be muslim. He demands the kids will be muslims and yes that's the big issue.
  17. Yeah i see. I tried to leave him few times by saying i think i cannot be with him. He refused to leave me and because of his heart problems, he got into hospital and bad condition when he thought i would leave him. Of course i could not leave him then and i felt so bad and later regret trying to leave him honestly. I love jesus but if he was sent by satan to me, why then i got closer to god after i met him?
  18. Yes i don't feel the love in here though He would want me to become a muslim and he thinks i'm on the wrong path as me too think he is because he is not christian. He is ok with me being a christian though as i am ok with him being a muslim. We try not to debate over religion. I have told him about jesus but he does not want to accept him as the son of god so i can not do more than just to pray for him.
  19. Yes i see. I am not insulting you, i think you yourself here attacked me. And i meant ask muslims who really practice their faith and know their quran, so asking from your work buddies would not be so good idea since you say they do not know much about quran. I know taqiyaa already but i can not remember everything by name. Patience with me please.
  20. His opinion. I don't know if you knew that most muslims do not support ISIS and they do flee the country because of ISIS. You know immigrants!
  21. What is this? I told you he is a muslim and you say rightaway he is funding terrorism..what rly you can't be serious. Of course he would not support terrorism. He has said to me myself that ISIS are just terrorists and not real muslims.
  22. "but would support muslim charities that are known to fund terrorism" where did you get this from? He would also protect his family and in some cases it is possible he would have to kill the one that is trying to kill his family/wife.
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