sharr

Hi my name is Sharr, I have been a member of my church since the age of seventeen, met my husband there and raised my three children there. Feeling frustrated with a situation concerning my youngest daughter and a boy. My daughters life revolved around church her youth group and God. A good girl, prayer warrior. A boy began attending our church when his parents sent him to a college near by. My daughter then age 20, began a relationship with said boy. Him and his parents are of a different culture and his father did not approve of my daughter due to not being college educated. Suddenly this relationship began taking my daughter away from God, sneaking around for 3 years. Then a child was created and this boy wanted to marry my daughter. The father said no way stay away from her, made up horrible stories about my daughter to keep his son away. The boy stuck by my daughter through her pregnancy and birth of their son, all the while hiding it from his father. This went on till the child was two. Then he began staying away and when his parents would visit our church they would be seen talking to a girls parents a girl my daughter grew up with. The end was he was seeing my daughter and this other girl at the same time. This girl was college educated and when my daughter dropped out of college due to a life threatening brain tumor this boy ended the relationship. Soon began seeing the friend of my daughter. So my grandson is now three my daughter has been excluded by her friends while this boy and girl are held up high. Taking my grandson everywhere together, taking him to the girls parents. This boy shows my daughter so much disrepect treating her like the whore that defiled him. I feel so betrayed by my church and it has taken a lot of prayers to have kept my family of eleven there. Its just awkward and its taking its toll on me and causing extreme bitterness.