First, I am a Christian. Second, this man has done nothing inappropriate. He has not flirted or anything. He is a true man of God . I say hi and speak to him during greet your neighbor time at church. Other than that I make it a point to avoid him without being rude. Both of us are in choir. What am i supposed to do? Drop out of choir? Singing for the Lord is my passion so nope not happening. So just because I developed a crush ive committed adultery in my heart? I cant control my thoughts but I can control how I respond to them. You all think I havent prayed about this?