Kelseyrae

Hi, My fiancé and I have been together for 2.5 years, lived together for 2 years. Some may believe this is wrong, and trust me, I have heard all the speeches about it. We have been engaged since March, no date set yet for wedding. My fiancé is more than likely getting a job where it will be easier to move 1/2 hour away from where we live now in my condo I own. He thinks I need to quit my job (as well as a part-time job) to follow him and live with him in an apartment that he will pay for completely. I would be moving further away from my good paying job, my part-time job's clients, my family, and moving to a place I know nothing about. I would feel more comfortable doing that if we were married, but he doesn't seem to think now is the right time for it. He wants to get his life in order first - better paying job, saving more money, going to flight school to become a pilot (the school is also very close to his potential workplace). Just wondering if anyone has any personal experience about this or any advice from a Christian/Baptist perspective. I know a wife is supposed to submit to her husband, but we aren't technically married yet. It would be difficult if we lived in separate places, but may this situation is God telling us we should separate for a while?? Thanks.