Hello,
I have a debate with a friend. This guy says God guided him to love my friend. She believes that praying to God, He tells her she can never be attracted or have feelings for this other Christian guy friend who is in love with her. She also believes it is okay to end the friendship because he has feelings for her and believes it is then okay to tell him that she will never ever give him a chance and date him and nothing will change that, not even time will change that.
Does this sound like something a believer of God thinks, believes and says? Does this sound like God to you?
In my experience with God, it sounds awfully judgmental and quite hurtful of her to tell a Christian man "never" to his love and then to destroy the good friendship she had with him. I feel she has severely wronged this man and has turned from God's love.
I want to help her.
Thank you
