I have a friend of mine who I really like and we had a conversation. He told me how he was a groomsmen at his friends wedding and how he caught his friend and the stripper cheating. He yelled at the other groomsmen and told his friend that he really messed up, but still attending. Mind you, his friend KNEW the stripper so this makes it worse.
he says he’s saved and I questioned him on his thoughts. He said it wasn’t his placed to tell and that he hadn’t seen his friend since then. He then told me because his friend was drunk he believes it was a mistake and non premeditated. This guy I like seems a bit naive. He says that went people get drunk they don’t know what they’re doing and he would even forgive his wife if she did the same thing. I don’t agree with this and it hurts me that he didn’t have a righteous anger about it. Or at least he didn’t seem to be that angry. Is that bad or am I judging him for his thoughts on cheating and his position? I don’t like labeling this a mistake because that means whatever people do when they’re drunk (violence, sexual assault, cheating, etc.) should be labeled a mistake.
I expected him to be angrier and I don’t like this view and the story just makes me mad thinking about it!! What should I think about this guy? It seems he has such a bad group of friends around him and when I try to help him understand he gets upset and says he doesn’t want to change who he is and is fine hanging around people who willingly sin.
should I just stop talking to him? Help!!
