My husband and I have started attending church again.
But we have issues or I have issues lol
No one take what I say as hurtfull, I really am trying to figure this out, not offend anyone. And yes my spelling is bad LOL
Hymn books - I'm used to these type songs. The church we are going to sings these new songs. I just can't seem to get used to them, they don't seem as moving.
Pews - LOL ok so I guess I can live without my wooden pews. But boy does it seem odd. I do understand these chairs can be moved for different functions,ect.
Different backgrounds - I was raised attending a Baptist church. Husband was raised attending Pentacostal (sp?) So I find alot of things different..talking in tongues,slain in the spirt,ect. I am understanding the reasons, but it still is taking getting used to.
I don't think its right for us to attend different churchs. And he feels he has been called to attend here. So I feel I should follow his choice.
I'm used to what husband calls "fire and brimstone sermons" and while the ones we get now are good its not the same teaching as I'm used to its more "sugar coated"
Dh says the churches are different now (LOL it hasn't been that long I'm only 27) and this is how things are done. That I'm not being open enough and just don't like change.
I'm sure I'm forgeting something, or not explaining myself well.
But hopfully someone will understand what I'm meaning.
Anyone know what I'm meaning, been there, advice?
Mary