lostsoulmate

Hi lostsoulmate, I want to tell you how sorry I am that you're going through this. I have not been divorced, but I have been through a breakup that was heartbreaking, and it took me a long time to get over him. Long story short, as bad as it feels now, with time it WILL fade. It probably won't be anytime soon, but eventually it's going to get to a point where you hardly think about it and feel a sense of peace over the whole thing. The good news is you have God. Right now would be a great time to really solidify a relationship with him. Read the bible, pray, go to church, get involved in some activities- anything you can do to get your mind off the hurt. A verse that gave me a lot of encouragement was Matthew 21:22- If you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer. Now I'm not suggesting that you pray for this woman to come back into your life, but rather that you would pray for peace, happiness, and a quick recovery. And I will be the first to testify over the power of prayer. It really works. And in my situation it helped me get over my ex a lot sooner than I had thought I would. I will pray for you. Sierra Sierra..... Thank you so much for your kind words. It helps to hear that all will be better with the power of prayer. I pray every day for her heart to heal and for mine to move on eventhough I could only wish that we get back together. I know that's not possible so I must move on. Again....thank you so much. Sincerely, Dan

I am 6 months new to the Lord so I am an infant in his workings. But I do pray everyday and especially at night for strength. I ask for forgiveness for myself and for her. It helps so much to talk to someone like yourself who has been with him. thank you.

Peaches.....I do continue to talk to God and ask for strength. Sometimes it starts to look brighter, then she does stuff and it sets it back.....I only want peace for her heart....Yea, I would love to have her back but I know it's not going to happen. People have told me God works miracles but this isn't possible. Thank you for your prayers

I am yours...I can't Pm you ....gives me an error....Thank you for your prayers.

Thank you Sheya......your prayers help...but it still hurts.....will it ever stop?

Thank you Friar.....I don't know what else to do....I wanted so much to save the marriage.

Hello. I have been married for 23 years and am now in a recent divorce. The pain and suffering involved is so hard to take. I have sought comfort and strength in the words of the Lord but I still am in love with her and can't seem to let my love for her go. I think she is doing alot better than I am but I was always the one to show more affection than her. I try so hard to move on, yet......I am still in love with her. I try to be cordial but her attitude is spiteful and vindictive at times. There is so much more..... I wasn't allowed to say goodbye to her dying mother, I wasn't added to the obit, I didn't attend the memorial because I wasn't welcomed or allowed to sit with my children.....I have done wrong, I believe she has, but I have told her I forgive her and that I have allowed God into my life. I tried to so hard to stay together. I offered her my new self with the Lord as my guide but that didn't work either. I miss her. I don't want anyone else but it looks like I have no choice. How can I let her go when My heart won't. How can I forget the good times when I see things everyday that remind me of her. Help my heart.