Hi angels4u, I have been asked this question many times, as my mother took her own life when I was 14. I find peace in the knowledge that He who decides where every person will spend eternity is the soveriegn Lord. I trust His decisions completely, and seek His will in all things. My mother was born-again, but suffered from mental instability, and severe depression. There is a good chance that she was not in control of her mind, or even aware of what she was doing, but only the LORD knows this for certain. Does the LORD hold a person who cannot reason, accountable for their actions? Are those who are mentally challenged, incapable of reasoning who Christ is and their own need for salvation, judged as unbelievers? I personally believe that the LORD's grace and mercy prevail in such cases.