I can relate, relative to the guys' perspective. After my divorce, I had to travel to earn enough cash to pay support, and still survive. The emotional turmoil of the breakup and upheaveal left me completely alone, and extremely lonely. I reached out to a church and learned that there were some lovely single women in there, only later to discover that in no way was I ready for a relationship. And they, even less so. Many, many nights I would come home from work to turn on the TV just for the noise. Sometimes I would insist on getting out to dine by myself. Haha! That's a trip which I do not miss. Occassionally, I'd see another forlorn soul sitting alone reading a book; probably hiding from the eyes of others. And I would think, gee, it would be so nice to dine with that person and have a pleasant conversation. In the end though, I always went home to the noise of the TV, more lonely than ever.
Paul expressed, it is not good for man to be alone. And I know exactly what he meant. It leads us down paths where we should not venture. Women are probably not as prone to those kinds of distractions, I would guess. Eventually I met and married again, and we are miles from family still. But at least we have each other to rely on for sweet company. I don't want to ever be single again, unless the Lord should call her home. Who knows what lies in store then... I racked up quite a few single years; and sometimes, not gracefully.