This concept is really really hard for me to accept and understand when I first heard it, actually I am still struggling with it.
In fact, I think this whole predestination and free will thing is beyond our human logic and understanding, because we can not see the future, and we are not eternal, we live in a space and time, God is beyond that. Therefore this is just one of the many things we dont have the capability of fully grasping base on our own knowledge. Therefore we must trust God and his words, and as many posters in this thread have quoted scriptures that FULLY support the fact God has chosen his people before everything started. There are also scriptures that supports that we make our own choices to follow him or not. There are also scriptures that clearly states salvation is offered to everyone who choose to believe in Jesus Christ.
You can't just choose to believe in part of the Bible and choose to ignore the parts you dont understand. Well you can ignore it if you can't understand it, but you cant deny it's facts.
Again, I might be going really philosophical here, but I think this topic involves a lot of deep thinking to even make a bit of sense out of it.
When you said "Those that are saved have no choice." Again you are not thinking clearly about the definition of a choice?
What is a choice and free will? I think I explained it in my lost post.
But I will try to state the main point again, free will is to choose the choices that are presented to you base on your own knowledge, experience and etc.
Once you have discover God, you will want to lose that free will and let him make the decision for you.
Even though God has chosen you to enter heaven, in the end you still choose to follow him. This does not conflict at all.
Yes in human term, it wouldnt make sense, because for example if I choose to marry someone, the other person might say yes or no.
Why? because I am not God. I am not perfect.
Once God has shown you the glory and grace, you basically cant say no. Not that he mind control or made u into a robot. But because God is so great.
And Once God has chosen someone, he is not going to do a halfass job about it. He will eventually influence you into the path of salvation and holiness.
His glory and grace will simply NOT fail.
"#2 Those who are not saved have no chance."
Yes, that sucks, actually for me, I wish that EVERYONE would be saved, but I am not God, it is not up to me to decide.
And without Jesus coming down to earth, everyone would be in hell anyways, the fact that some of us will be saved has shown the mercy and grace of God already.
And we can not focus on this, because we dont not know who is chosen or not, as far as we know, we are suppose to live on this earth and grow spiritually and become more like Jesus and then preach the word of God to EVERYONE and go with the mentally that you will try to save every soul that you can with the guidance of the holy spirit.