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OKAY, HERE GOES. My apologies for the long read but please help me gather my feelings together? This is a facebook story. Last couple of nights ago I was on my facebook and I was checking out friends and I came across my wife’s FB. Not a big deal. So I clicked on her profile and noticed she did not have her relationship status as married anymore? She once did. I do not know when that changed it to nothing or if she changed it but it’s gone. I was a little distressed thinking if she did delete the status what would be her reason be? That made me sad but I let it go and thought I would asker her at a more appropriate time what might have happened. I don’t want to come across as needy or over bearing but it hurt my feelings a little, AM I BEING SILLY? So here is where it gets a little complicated. Last night my wife went to bed and she left her face-book open. She has a small group of private friends that share the same interest in a hobby (so far all females I believe). I was going to close it but something told me to scroll down a bit. (Maybe I should not have done that but I did). I saw my wife posted a picture of a really good looking guy and made some type of suggestive remarks about him. Basically something like “wow how can I work with him” it was obviously in a sexual manner / tone…that got me thinking so I scrolled down more and noticed her commenting on a another male picture shared by a member of the group. I all so read some of her posts to the ladies (them as well) discussing our sex life and their sex lives in small detail. Not graphic but how often and in some cases what we do…etc… After that I close the page and spent the night and early morning chewing over what I hade seen. At no point did I see betrayal in the raw sense but definitely some kind of trust violation. What should I do? or am I at fault for looking at her FB? should I deal with it and ask about the relationship status only? I feel like a creep reading her posts but here we are.