Annette443pink Posted April 22, 2005 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 58 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 228 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 22 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/21/2004 Status: Offline Share Posted April 22, 2005 (edited) [quote name='Bro David Edited April 22, 2005 by Annette443pink Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gerioke Posted April 22, 2005 Group: Royal Member Followers: 3 Topic Count: 97 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 5,850 Content Per Day: 0.84 Reputation: 128 Days Won: 0 Joined: 03/19/2005 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/11/1911 Share Posted April 22, 2005 I have to agree wiyh Annette Distance for a period would help salvage the friendship but intimacy at that age is volatile at best. Is the guy saved? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Convert Posted April 23, 2005 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 2 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 6 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 04/23/2005 Status: Offline Share Posted April 23, 2005 Unfortunately, this is one of those things that is just hard to deal with, plain and simple. Love is a very volatile emotion in my experience. Another issue is that it can sometimes be hard to give relevent and impacting advice when no one but you is IN the situation. However, I'll tell you 1-2 things that I have learned. Once you are out of a relationship with someone, it's best to find breathing room. I'm not saying actively shut the guy off but I wouldn't be around him all the time either. Imo, its hard to remain close friends after a break-up with someone. There are just too many issues and reminders floating around. (Unless it was an extremely soft break-up) Also, you have to reconcile with the fact that if the guy isn't going to marry you, but in all likelihood IS meant to marry, it must be with someone else. Granted, that realization is MUCH easier to say than to actually come to grips with. I had a relationship with a very godly, awesome girl about 3 years ago and every now and again I still think that it is a crappy deal that we aren't together. Such is life. Well, in closing just remember there are peeps praying for you and, as my good friend said in a situation like this, time is always on your side. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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