princess_childofthekingofkings Posted May 12, 2007 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 16 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 192 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 1 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/25/2004 Status: Offline Birthday: 05/16/1992 Share Posted May 12, 2007 Who says they don't work? Couples who are separated physically often have extremely good communication skills (if they work at it). Use that to your advantage. Be open, share what's really on your heart and mind. It's a risk worth taking. sure they may work, but what's the point? you never get to see the person you're in the relatioship with. or if you do, it's just hardly ever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carol R Posted May 13, 2007 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 27 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 705 Content Per Day: 0.11 Reputation: 7 Days Won: 0 Joined: 04/01/2007 Status: Offline Birthday: 11/23/1958 Share Posted May 13, 2007 Ok, this might be a bit of a strange question and I feel it out of place with the other questions and posts on this forum. I moved to Dubai several months ago and left behind a couple of incredible friends. I still stay in contact with them and I talk to one of my best friends almost every single day. I've always had feelings for her but never acted on them or told her about them. I'm also completely oblivious to hints, in hindsight I see she threw quite a few of them. She basically confirmed my suspicions (excuse the spelling) in a recent chat session and I've no idea what to do about it. The second I talk to her about it and tell her how I feel about her, our relationship will change. I know that long-distance relationships do NOT work out (my parents have proven that to me). I'm returning to South Africa in December (hopefully), and will hopefully see her again. Any inputs would be appreciated. It's always good to have someone 'outside' look at a situation objectively. Thanks, David Hi David, Does she come on worthy, is she likely to see this post and realise its her you are talking about? Is she a christian too? I guess my advice would be to take your time keep it all before God and keep your friendship. Keep getting to know each other, its good to have friends. Carol R Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iryssa Posted May 14, 2007 Group: Royal Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 117 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 3,860 Content Per Day: 0.56 Reputation: 9 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/10/2005 Status: Offline Birthday: 09/13/1984 Share Posted May 14, 2007 Who says they don't work? Couples who are separated physically often have extremely good communication skills (if they work at it). Use that to your advantage. Be open, share what's really on your heart and mind. It's a risk worth taking. sure they may work, but what's the point? you never get to see the person you're in the relatioship with. or if you do, it's just hardly ever. For most people who do long-distance relationships, the long-distance part is only temporary. I did the long distance thing...we still saw eachother as often as possible. It WAS hard...but given that that man is now my husband and he makes me SO happy, I can tell you one thing for sure: It was worth every moment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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