justjen33

Thank You for posting this. I agree with his take on this subject. This world has certainly lost its way as to what sex is all about.

Taylor, I was right were you are just a few short months ago. I was so lonely and to a point of desperation. I was so tired of being alone. I have two small kids and yet felt alone and was so discouraged because all I felt was that I had failed miserablly because I wasn't married and in a home with a yard and a dog and all was perfect. Then I started seeking God. Really seeking Him. He revealed to me that I was complete and that at this time in my life a relationship would only add to a plate that was already full. He (God) wanted all my attention I could give to Him so that I could grow and become a strong Christian woman. This singleness is a gift. Once I marry I will have even less time to get to know my Creator. What feels like isolation right now to you may actually be God trying to get your complete attention right now. I was also without a church home for quite some time. I attended several area churches and none fit. Until I walked into one I had been in five years earlier for a food basket. I knew when I walked back in I was home. This church is 40 miles from my home in another state. Don't give up hope and don't let what you don't have keep you from hearing what God has in mind for you. One thing that kept resonatting in me was to "be still and know I am God" that played over and over in my head for months. finally I listened. I am still single and probably will be for quite awhile. But I am happy, joyful and content. I know that I have all I NEED. That did not happen till I gave EVERYTHING over to HIM. I pray you find your path that God has in mind for you and that you find contentment in your heart. Jennifer

My question is how did God know that two and half months after you wrote this I would be seeking these very words? I just recently experienced conversion after ten years of being a christian. God does this. He always always puts me right where I need to be. Even when I fail Him. Because I did tonight. I failed miserably. I told a man I loved him when in fact I do not. I also know in my heart that God has another man for me. You see even though I was saved I was back slidden and lost for the past couple of years. Yearning and searching for fufillment in everything else bit Him, in Christ. Pain and disappointment followed me like a storm cloud. Then in the past few weeks things started clicking together I found a home church. Christian music became my preferred choice. I came across a man's profile on a dating site that was an example of a Godly man. God spoke to me at that moment and told me that if I waited on HIM, He, God, would bless my life with that type of man and relationship. I started to obey getting rid of bad relationships ans and walking away from inappropriate things in my life. Then I met a youngg man who is the epitomy of what I had been seeking for so long. I do not know of it is this young man who is the one meant to be in my life or if God is simply showing me a precious jewel, an example of what is to come. . All I know is that since this conversion, which is more than kust a seeking of a partner, I cannot get enouggh of God. I found this site. I found a book about being a Godly woman. And tonight when I failed the Lord and feared losing what I just gained He brought me to your words, and I know with out a shadow of doubt, those words were for me. Thank you. He, Yaweh, Father, is amazing, I dont have the words to praise Him right now. I have no clue why He loves me but He does. Bless you for listening to Him when you wrote this post. Jen