hello, i'm cd, lets start with this God does answer your prayers. those coincidences are really answered prayers you just dont realize it. And yes God sometimes decides not to answer prayers because the prayer your praying for God thinks might hurt you in the future. the only way to tell if your saved is if you've accepted Jesus Christ as your lord and savior. so i cant say that your saved, thats only between you and God. And God does not believe in you, what i mean by that is... God can only watch over you, not pray to or for you. he loves you so much. you might not realize it, but God will always supply your needs. by that i dont mean fancy sports cars or a nice house, i mean essentials like food clothes shelter etc. i hope you start listening more to God, start thanking him for answered and unanswered prayers. start giving him all the credit for the things in your life. start thanking him for the simple things like food and water. start asking less and gloryfi Him more, tell God how much you really love Him. i hope you follow my advice. God bless you and i'll be praying for you!!!