jasper32

I cant tell u how sweet it feels to have my daughter aay daddy and crawl into my arms:)

One other question is my inlaws want me to call them mom and dad, but I dont feel comfortable with that? Also sometimes when I come home from work, my wife has her friends over from 8th grade kast yr. It becomes kinda awkward coming home kissing my wife and daughter with a bunch of other young teen girls staring at me and each other and giggling. How do u overcome that weirdness?

Actually, I see what you are saving financially, but we really will be fine in that area. We have talked bout waiting till she is 20 for our thurd child. We did confess to the church and ask for forgiveness before we wed and comitted ourselves to each other, even though we considered ourselves comitted before hand anyway.

Keeping christ at the center is first and foremost. We do love rather frugal right now and manage our money. My wife handles our finances and grocery shops for our family with our moms. Her mom taught her how to run a household. She's very smart. We only have one car right now, my work truvk since she is still a couple yrs from driving, no car payment. My dream has always been to build our home myself. My father and father in law have taught me and my older brother in law everything we know bout the trades in construction, electric, splumbing, etc since we were lil boys. He is a supervisor now and I likely will be in a couple yrs. We are saving money and playing it smart which will let my wife continue to be a stay at home mom. I hope to someday have a lil boy of my own to teach my trade, if not this maybe in a few yrs. I pray that everyone's family may be blessed through christ and in my prayers. My beautiful lil girl and young wife and unborn child are my whole world and what I work so hard for.

We won't ever lose each other.

I think maybe next year after this baby is born, and I turn 18, and she 15, I think we may move out and try to find a place of our own rather than her parents garage apartment. I'd like to build us a small house in a couple yrs after save money. I built my lil daddy's girl a big play house:)

Thank you for all the prayers. That totally makes sense and I pray for you and your own family. I think we may wait a few yrs now before having more children. My dad and her dad are both older, old school personalities, type a. Hard to please, but once you do have their approval,you will never lose it. They know I work hard as a young teen husband and father, and my wife is the same. They are just overprotective. My lil sister is 8, and absolutely adores my wife and is so good with my daughter, I hope she doesn't try the same things we did, or our dughter and unborn child. We try to raise her in christ as much as we can.

Thank you everyone for the prayers. Bless you.

Also, my young wife is so worried I may leave her for ab older girl nearer my own age and gets very jealous when other girls are around and grabs my hand and squeezes it like she is going to lose it. She doesn't realize she is the only beauty I see. She is keeping her first maternity dresses because she is still just as tiny now as she was then.

Thank you steward. One thing is, even though I work very hard in my studies and I work long hrs and overtime building houses and I come home late, I still feel like I haven't totally measured up to my father in laws expectations and my own father to. I am hoping I will develop a father son relationship with my father in law as I do with my dad. Can't wait to maybe someday have that with my own son if we had one. I realize I am with his lil girl, but I hope he knows how much I love her, because I also have my own lil girl to now and maybe another one soon or boy on its way. I just think with everything its going to take time.

I just have a question. Maybe i shouldn't be posting this considering my families situation, but I just wanted some godly advice from some Christian strangers. I grew up in a small southern town. My family was always extremely good friends with our neighbors. We did everything together as friends. They were and are like family. I grew up with daughter who is almost three years younger than me. I had always viewed her as like my lil sister and was like a lil brother to her older brother who is 4 yrs older than me and my lil sister was like a lil sister to this girl, my friend a few yrs younger than me. One big happy family. She blossomed into a very pretty young petite girl, and when she turned 12, she asked me to be her boyfriend, and never seen a girl so beautiful especially when she dressed up for church in her dresses. Well she told me one day she saw her big brother being together with his girlfriend and thought we should make love together up in her tree house. When we were done, we dressed and couldn't look at each other because we felt so guilty. I kissed her and left. I didn't talk with her for almost a month because I didn't know what to say. Then she approached me and told me she knew she was pregnant and I was the father. I was scared at first but realized how much I missed her to and held her and kissed her as she cried in my arms after her cheerleading practice. Well both families were very angry but at the sixth mos of pregnancy when she was 12 and a half, both our parents came and told us they loved us and supported us and that we were staying together and they were going to have us marry when she turned 14 under state law and parental consent. I turned 17 soon after. Truth is, I didn't realize how much I could love someone so much as I did my girlfriend and mother to my child and her to me. We had to look for maternity dresses. She gave birth a few mos before 13. We raised our sweet lil daughter tog till she turned 14. We are now a month into our marriage and live in her parents garage apartment as a family. I just turned 17 a couple days ago and her 14 a mos ago. Thing is, she told me she believes she is pregnant again after only a mos together. Our families dont know yet. Abortion would never cross our minds, but I dont believe we are ready for two children. If god wills it though, we will. We are both homeschooled now. She is a stay at home mom and wife and I work construction for her dad. I love her and my children so much. I just need prayer to tell our families we are expecting again.