No, I'm here.
I've been busy trying to bridge the gap. Sorry for the delay. Even since I originally typed that, I've also been growing in sermons, pastor's podcasts, and self-study.
I hold enough offense at what I perceive the LORD/Jesus did to me over these eight years that prevents me from taking any form of basic spiritual advice and counsel without scrutinizing it thoroughly, and explain how I've done it. For me to submit to his ways, is for me to trust that Jesus has my best interest in mind, and I DO NOT TRUST HIM. At all. From my life experience, I dont have much to trust him in. I've lost money, jobs, friends, peace, social standing, and many other things...and trusted Jesus to make use out of my life. I was wrong to trust him with that. The only thing he's good for is saving your soul from sin and grating a person 'eternal life', or whatever the heck that means. I stopped caring about that a long time ago, although, I am not closed off to counsel. I'm just letting you know...I've been around the block, and have the LORD pretty much figured out.
I understand the point of Jesus: He was God in the image of man, and his sole objective was to offer himself, blameless and perfect, to die an innocent being, hung on a cross, so that all of man's sins would be placed upon him, and with his death, he offers himself, the son of God, as a sacrifice to send our sins to die with his body, and in three days, Jesus was risen out of death, overcoming death and Satan, and through those who believe in his death and ressurection, are granted eternal life. Jesus was perfect in every single way.
Here's the PROBLEM...some BORN AGAIN BELIEVERS are blessed with money, romance, belonging, talents, skills, and confidence. Other BORN AGAIN BELIEVERS get the short end of the stick, and are often CURSED instead. I am the cursed that got the short end of the stick, and I know a LOT of CHRISTIANS who are magnificiently blessed. One could argue I am ungrateful, but FACTS are FACTS, and I see my life, and their life, and all I know, from what I SEE, is that God plays favorites, and I am not his favorite.
Could I be wrong? Sure. But, I dont care. All I know is, others have, and I dont have. All I CARE ABOUT is being treated fairly. I could care less what scripture or the LORD has to say. If I am treated less than his other children who have the same as me and MORE, I have no reason to be loyal to the LORD.
I dont care what the consequences are. I've been at this eight years folks. I've been banned from three Christian chat forums because I ask the difficult questions. I will risk hell for justice. I want justice. I've talked to many Christians. I go to a good Christian church (where I see most of these 'superblessed' christians who live good lives), and I listen to many Christian preachers online. I get the message, but I dont see results. RESULTS ARE THE ONLY THING THAT COUNT. Anything else doesn't quality.
RESULTS. Not sentiments.
And the only results I've gotten from being a born again Christians are loss, pain, rejection, failure, and abandonment, among other things.
Please also bear in mind...
The above you just read...didn't happen overnight. I was faithful. It took 2-3 of those 8 years to get to where I'm at now.
You're gonna have to pose a REALLY CONVINCING testimony to change my heart to trust Jesus again.