Jackie Bob

 Blessing Brother, Think about this!!!!!! if there is a piece of broken glass in your foot, what will you do? will you leave it there? Or will you seek help, I mean it is deep down in your flesh will you go to a dentist to remove the broken glass? you will find the right place to get it remove, so you will not loose your foot, you are aware the broken glass is there because of discomfort you will not be feeling well,  This is why you know what you are doing is wrong because you are not feeling good about what you are doing, God is saying to you, For I am the Lord your God who takes hold of your right  and says to you, Do not fear, I will help you, that in it self say God wants to help you, just reach out when God Holds out His hand to you, just as someone is  drowning if someone holds out their hand the person will hold on for their life to be saved. If they want to die they will refuse the hand reaching out to save them.

You can control sin once you surrender your heart to the Lord Jesus Christ, Holy Sipirt Takes control, Just avail yourself and God promise to be there there for you.

Love you with the love of the Lord, Jackie

On 9/27/2016 at 0:31 PM, FreeinChrist said:

What do you do when sin runs your life and you cry to God for help yet no help or answer?  I know this sin should not be in my life, but feel so powerless against it; and God doesn't heed my cry.

 

And as sickening as I view this sin of mine; it just makes me hate myself so much more.  So yea not only do I hate myself but find myself hating others also.

Isaiah 41:13 For I am the LORD your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear, I will help you.  Genesis 4:7 And if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door and its desire is for you, but yu must master it"

23 minutes ago, kwikphilly said:

Heya GE

     It is funny what the Good News Translation says...

I think an "act of love" is not at all an act of love iof one feels obligated & without choice.............good stuff!        With love-in Christ,Kwik

I so agree with this one hundred percent, if we love sincerely we will not hurt others.

Blessings and Welcome  To Worthy Sam,

I read about what is going on in your life, I agree the  with the Godly advice  that had been  said to you , question to you is!!!!!!! when you say you are cheating on your girlfriend cheating in what way? remember if you say you have surrendered your life to Jesus there is no room for cheating, I'm not condemning you just trying to understand when you say you are cheating, may I ask why you feel you have to cheat on your girl friend? I pray you have a chat with her and  ask her to forgive you, if you love her as you mention you can still be her friend.

Sometimes when we have break up we don't understand there are lessons we have to learn in all this, one thing when some persons are hurting they call upon God more and the minute things get back to normal most of the time persons forgets God who helped them to be healed, I like the advice you have been given, please follow them inspect your walk with God allow God to speak to you, listen take His instructions lean not unto your own understanding and God will direct your part, looking forward to hear your testimony and you may help others when they are in the same situation. Kwikphily put it just right, Rusty Angle hit it right also when she remind you about being unequally yoked, the question asked about the characteristics of a Godly boyfriend, examine yourself, read your word apply and you will get great Godly counsel.

I know others will be praying for you .

Love you with the love of the Lord Jesus Christ.

8 hours ago, kwikphilly said:

Blessings Sam

    Welcome t o Worthy,sorry about your girlfriend problems but let' s put that on the back burner,just for a moment,okay?

I'm a bit more concerned about " who" or "how"  you are LEARNING about Christianity & what it means to you to be a DEVOTED Christian,let us begin there so we have a good Understanding,,,,, devotion or dedication to Christianity or any WORKS of our own does not lead us to the Grace of God,Reconciliation or grant us any kind of forgiveness    If you are "learning" about Christianity I dso ;hope your "church friends"  are pointing you in the right direction,to the foot of the cross

   You can learn all about doctrines & all about Jesus and that means little,Christianity is a Personal & Intimate Relationship with God,,,,,only through  FAITH in the knowledge of WHO Jesus is,knowing HIM...not ABOUT HIM    All the "devotion" needed was by Him,He is sop devoted to YOU that HE took y our place on that cross because HE LOVES YOU.....there is no Relationship with God but through Christ Jesus,in Him,by Him & through Him....that is Christianity,......& Faith comes by hearing the Word of God.....

   Okay ,back to the girlfriend(now ex)   I am going to give you the exact same advice I gave my own child,my son & the same advice I would give anyone who has their hearts & minds focused on secondary things.......give it a try but it must be in all sincerity & with an earnest heart,& God knows your heart my friend.......

    God MUST be FIRST & FOREMOST in our lives ,Jesus must LORD our lives,,,,,,,we must be totally reliant & dependent on Him if we want a life filled with Peace,Love,Joy,Comfort......it is a completeness that cannot be FILLED by any human    This girl may or may not be the one God has for you & "good for her" that she is not willing to be with a non-Christian......I don't know anything much about her but I do know a lot about living a life more Abundant in Christ and that in this world we see that one plus one equals 2.....God has much more for us than this w4orld offers,one plus one equals 3 PLUS,a half & a half does not equal a whole,it leaves a whole     When you have a complete person in Christ & put them together with another complete person in Christ you wind up with a DOUBLE PORTION,make sense?

   Sometimes God allows us to have broken relationships & achy hearts,it is simply a red flag to warn us that something is missing,there is a void and He draws us unto Himself,,,,,let Him Fill your void & change the desires of your heart,I promise you cannot find greater JOY than in His Grace & LOVE,,,,,,then,if SHE is "the one" then no mountain or ocean will get in Gods Way of His Will for you.....you do have to listen for guidance & direction though but really,TRUST GOD

I will tell you very briefly,no promise that this will happen to you......my son took my advice,he sought Gods Face,he turned all his attention to having a Relationship in Jesus...he asked Holy Spirit to reveal to him his own heart & change it if he had the wrong desires..........out of the blue,some months later,the ex called & said she could not stop thinking about him,,,,,today they are married with 3 kids      And I tell you this,if he did not "get the girl" it wouldn't have mattered because he found completeness,FREE in Jesus!                                   With love-in Christ,Kwik

 

Sorry to hear what you are saying about your husband, be happy your son choose the best Father in the world Christ Jesus, give thanks with a great full heart, it is hard when someone going through trials, like you are going through to tell them in every thing give thanks, this is what the scripture says only who practice this knows it works, be thankful your husband have not give you any sickness give thanks from being free from that, if you give him another child is there any surety he will not treat you worst sister? in Galatians says a believer have to have the characteristics of Christ which is the fruit of the spirit, so far we have not see your husband displaying any good fruit only fruit of the flesh, we have not heard him showing any love, if he was then the rest would of be evident  which is joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control, sister you cannot desire darkness more than light and your husband demonstrates darkness, John 2-9 says "Whoever says he is in the light and hate his brother is still in darkness, when some husbands behaves like this some wives spend all their time on the man and not God making him an idol because they ponder on the man more than God, sister the advice others have given for you to get advice from a Good Pastor  PLEASE TAKE IT, I know, others and I will be waiting to hear your testimony, who knows, your son serving God may lead his father to Christ, blessing sister keep your eyes on Christ, I am not only saying what I am saying to you to sound Good, I was married for 22 yrs and recently had to walk away from my marriage, but my son is bitter your son is better he Has the best Dad in the world. Be strong and I will have my prayer group keep you in prayer sis, you also pray for other sisters that God will make a way for them, you are the right one to pray for them.