cherubim

Here is a sad eye opener of how children are being immensely harmed.  Please pass this information along, and get involved.  I can think of few other issues that Christians should be involved in, and trying to implement change:

https://100r.org/2016/12/custody-2/

Thank you.  I am sincerely grateful for the prayer support during this difficult time.  I am very concerned about my grandson's welfare being in the hands of a political situation, but I know God hears.  It's very difficult waiting for this judge's decision.  I am hoping that God has mercy and we will get it soon, and it will keep this terrible man out of all of our lives.

Thank you for asking.  My daughter had to take my grandson to a psychiatrist. He told her she was suffering from trauma, and my grandson is suffering from ptsd I believe.  This is a crime.  My grandson was doing so very good without his father's destructive influence.  The courts are using outdated studies that have been proven false - allegedly pushed by the Father's Rights Movement, who actually condone incest.  In-depth research shows the true colors of that organization.  One of the representatives, a Ph.d was a proponent of "genital caressing of children" believe it or not.  That is sick. If you haven't seen for yourselves yet, sick people sometimes get into positions of power.

How, in the Name of God, could a judge even consider ordering a young woman to interact with a man who abused her and will teach this young boy to be an abuser?  I read that generations of children are being traumatized in courts across the nation.

My daughter is afraid of him.  He chased her down and rammed her car with his truck a few years ago - totaling it.  He got off with his silver tongue, calling it "an accident."  He punched my daughter after she attempted to stop him from kidnapping their son.  My husband tried to stop him and he dragged my husband down the street half-in his truck.  He was convicted of domestic violence for that. We had a really insightful, good judge.

 I can't even fathom that a court would order a young woman to exchange their child and put her at risk of harm - or death, which has happened.  On an exchange, he assaulted her again, and was arrested.  How can a judge even consider forcing her to do this again?  Worse, forcing a young impressionable boy to see it.  It has been conclusively proven that when children see domestic violence, they become abusers, or turn to drugs, and other bad things. 

I would sincerely appreciate your continued prayers.  God has heard me. Maybe this happened for me to help spread the word and champion the cause of multitudes of children seriously harmed by these courts that are using outdated, false studies that joint custody is always the best arrangement.  More recent studies have disproven this - that children in high-conflict divorce situations fare terribly from having the continued non-stop turmoil from a father who uses the legal system to continue to batter.  It's also been proven that most men who batter women also batter children.

What is really despicable is that the law states that even if a man does not pay child support - which her ex has not paid since their son was born 8 years ago - that it "doesn't have anything to do with whether the father gets custody rights."

PLEASE contact your representatives to protest this!  What happens, is that men (or rotten women) can refuse to support their child, then PAY A LAWYER TO FIGHT THE MOTHER (or father), WHO IS BROKE FROM PAYING TO SUPPORT THEIR CHILD.  If my husband didn't work and have a good job, our daughter could not have afforded to pay a lawyer.  This is a crime.

I hope that everyone who sees this will take up for the cause of children. We are going to see more and more children grow into adulthood with emotional problems from this.  Once you dig deep into the realities, it is quite alarming.

I would be thankful for your continued prayers for my grandson, daughter, and us.

How is your custody situation?  Do you see your child?  It's heartbreaking that a child is put into turmoil.

2 hours ago, enoob57 said:

The seeds planted can bear fruit in time... Prayer never quits  Love, Steven

Thanks Steven.  Hopefully he will turn to God.  My daughter called upset that DYFS was at her door and she had to leave college.  They said someone called an anonymous tip on her ex - that they were abusing drugs, and they had to check out his other child.  It's a scrambled mess.   

Please keep us in prayer - my daughter's ex is using the court and now DYFS to harass her.  She called me, upset because they went to her house while she was in college.  She had to drive back and is having an 'inspection' now.  Her ex is vindictive - satan is hitting us through him, and the fear that our grandson will be harmed.  Please pray for my family & I.

On November 30, 2016 at 7:45 AM, enoob57 said:

Sometime the fruit of bad or disobedient ways lingers to suffering... God certainly has patiently taught why not unbelievers and unequally yoked! I too married in outward appearance and suffered much for this stupidity... now the precious child is held in the tension as well. Wow! How poor decisions can escalate into really difficult times. Prayed... Love, Steven 

I know too well how disobedient ways leads to suffering - long term.  I knew she shouldn't be with an unbeliever.  There were circumstances - but this is where we are now.  Outdated myths that equal parenting time is better for the child has been disproven - especially in cases of domestic violence.  I believe part of the reason he's going after my grandson, is because he's trying to hold onto my daughter and punish her for leaving him, even though he was abusive.  I feel sorry for him - he had a bad childhood himself.  His father abandoned him, and his mother moved in with her boyfriend who abused him.  I had him going to church - it just never worked.  

On March 1, 2017 at 9:31 PM, KPaulG said:

How's everything going now? 

My grandson had his last visitation with his father.  He was vomiting the morning before he had to go.  I entreated the judge to stop it.  He refused.  We now have to wait to hear what his decision is.  Every Christian should be praying for the multitudes of children in situations such as my grandson's.  Children are being traumatized by pop psychology that has nothing to do with the best interests of the child.  Please continue to pray for my grandson.

On February 24, 2017 at 10:00 PM, FresnoJoe said:

Praying~!

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The king's heart is in the hand of the LORD, as the rivers of water: he turneth it whithersoever he will. Proverbs 21:1

I thought of that exact verse.  Thank you all for praying.  Now we have to wait for the decision, which is unnerving.

Thank you for your prayers.  My daughter had him arrested before because she recorded his abuse on her phone. It's mind-boggling that he is taken seriously in getting custody.  Satan is at work.  Please keep praying.

On November 7, 2016 at 9:00 PM, bittermara said:

I dont have words to describe the predicament I'm in right now.  I've had problems before but not to the extent of what we are facing now. I dont how to stress the urgency of my situation except to say that I live in a 3rd world moslem country, belonging to a marginalised section of society where help is scarce. 

Our prayers seem to be falling on deafened ears. Maybe GOD will hear yours, I am only begging for sincere prayers and intercession on our behalf, nothing else.

a. urgent need of shelter - home - 

b. I need a job or some way of earning an income to support myself and mom

c. We have subsidised medical in my country but as we belong to a minority group, the powers that be will not subisidise my moms knee operation.  We cant afford an operation in a private hospital.  Actually we cant afford anything.  My mom is 72 and blind.  We have no other family.

If GOD will not intervene, the least he can do is end our suffering. 

Thank you for allowing me to post.

 

Look online for a job.  Good luck.

 

I am again asking all Believers to hold prayer pressure against this possible stronghold.  My grandson was crying last night because he does not want to see his father!  He told the court psychologist that he was afraid of his father, and she disregarded it.  Please pray for this young boy - it's criminal what is being done to him, and I can't make it stop!  Please pray.

12 hours ago, JesusGivesLifeMeaning said:

Can your attorney pursue an appeal hearing? Is it possible to get a different judge to take the case? I would think that if child services knew of the living conditions of the father, and discovered the drug situation/etc.,  they might think twice about giving him visitation rights/custody.

That apparently insults the judges because our lawyer won't do it.  I used to think child protective services was legitimate, but her last lawyer told her they are government workers who don't do their jobs.  He apparently was right.  Many children have died and put back in homes where they've been abused.  This world is rotten.

Please continue to pray for him.  I've taught him about God and we took him to church when I was able.  The sickening truth is that decisions are not made based on the welfare of the child.  Look it up - if anyone were to take up a cause here, it should be for children harmed by 'the system'.

55 minutes ago, Wayne222 said:

Sorry to hear about this. Hope God stops them. Will pray that they get no rights. God's blessing on you and your family. 

Thank you - I don't know what to do.  I tried talking in court and the judge was nasty.  I am getting hit with every fiery dart and need God to help, but I don't get answers.  I've combed my life - I don't have any sin.  I fasted.  Still nothing.  I feel like Habakuk.

On February 17, 2017 at 4:29 PM, JesusGivesLifeMeaning said:

Isaiah 54:17 - New King James Version (NKJV)

17 No weapon formed against you shall prosper, And every tongue which rises against you in judgment You shall condemn.
This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, And their righteousness is from Me,” Says the Lord.

Mark 11:23-24 - New King James Version (NKJV)

23 For assuredly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, ‘Be removed and be cast into the sea,’ and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that those things he says will be done, he will have whatever he says. 24 Therefore I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them.

 

We serve a God that is bigger than any circumstance we may encounter. As we can see in the previous verses, He has already equipped us, given us the victory.

WE must take the initiative and COMMAND that these things be as they should, and no other way. May I encourage you to remain strong in your belief, and not to give in to thoughts of despair, or constantly dwell on the negative situation, or continually confess how bad it is...according to the following verse, that is giving in to double-minded thinking.

 James 1:5-10 - New King James Version (NKJV)

5 If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. 6 But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind. 7 For let not that man suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord; 8 he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.

 

Praying for you and this situation.

 

That's wise - it's very hard.  He means so much to me and I feel powerless.  I have no earthly power and keep begging God to stop it.  

On November 24, 2016 at 9:36 AM, KPaulG said:

How's everything going now?

I sincerely appreciate your prayers.  My grandson has begun showing signs of emotional distress.  I emailed the judge and told him this experiment on my grandson needs to stop.  He completely ignored me, and is forcing my daughter, who has been the sole supporter of this child since birth, to continue bringing him to visitations with his father.  He's very mean - was mean to my daughter and me.  I have been in prayer, and fasted one day.  Nothing changed - at least from what I can see, although it's possible something is going on I don't know of.  I am so upset that my grandson's life is being decided by an unbeliever.  Her ex was an unbeliever, and she has turned from the beliefs we taught her.  I told her she needed God now.

We worked so very hard to put our grandson on the right path - if his father gets him he'll ruin him.  Our lawyer said "the judge is leaning towards giving him some custody."  It makes me sick.  I do not know what to do.  His father is a foul, hateful, woman-abuser.  He hates women.  My grandson was over his house before, and he dragged his new wife out of the house by her hair.  She's a drug addict, and we think he is too. He assaulted our daughter on exchanges - it will put her at risk again. The filth that went on in that house, no child should be exposed to.  He gave up his son for money - for my daughter dropping half of the child support he owed - even though he never paid it at all.  Now, almost a year later, he's back, forcing us to shell out a lot of money for a lawyer.

If you do cursory research - you can see that decisions are not always made in the best interests of the child.  Please pray that this judge is removed or changes.  

Can anyone give me any advice?  Has anyone else been through this?  Please continue praying.

I am begging everyone who sees this to pray for my grandson Brandon.  My daughter's ex is evil - he is a filthy liar controlled by the evil one, who speaks his native language.  He is trying to gain control of my grandson, when he and his wife are drug addicts, and she squatted and urinated on the floor, exposing herself to my grandson.  She smeared excrement on the walls, and stole all of his money from his bank, and stole his video games for drugs.  He got an unethical lawyer to take his case and we are going through TORMENT!  The judged lied in open court, saying that he spoke with my grandson and "he said he wants to see his dad."  I have been my grandson's biggest caretaker since birth and am very close to him.  I quietly asked him if he told the judge that, and he said "no". I asked him 3 times and he said "no" 3 times. 

The judge is FORCING him to see his evil father! THEY DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY'RE DOING.  THEY ARE HURTING HIM.  HE IS ONLY 8 !  My daughter dropped him off and told me that he's been depressed, and is going downhill again.  I can't get into it - it's terrible.  He is a handsome, well-adjusted innocent boy and this crazy judge controlled by satan is pushing my grandson to supervised visitations.  I AM BEGGING EVERYONE TO PLEASE PRAY.  I AM SICK WITH FEAR.  PLEASE!!!  THEY ARE DESTROYING HIM.  I am afraid my husband will have a heart attack - the stress on him is too much.  We've been hit with my high medical bills and we are getting hammered in every way and need prayer desperately.  I AM GOING TO CALL THIS SATANICALLY CONTROLLED JUDGE AND DEMAND IT BE STOPPED. THEY TRY TO PLAY GOD!!!!!!! I NEED EVERYONE'S PRAYERS.  GOD HELP ME.

I AM BEGGING EVERYONE WHO READS THIS TO WARFARE PRAY FOR MY GRANDSON AND US.  DEAR GOD - THE JUDGE HAS SATAN CONTROLLING HIS MIND.  THE JUDGE FORCED MY GRANDSON TO GO TO VISITATIONS WITH HIS AMORAL FATHER WHO I *KNOW* IS CONTROLLED BY SATAN.

PLEASE PRAY!  MY GRANDSON DID FACETIAE WITH ME, AND I NOTICED HE SEEMED DEPRESSED.  THEN MY DAUGHTER DROPPED HIM OFF AND CAME IN TO TALK WITH ME AND SAID HE'S BEEN MOODY, MEAN TO HIS TWO DOGS HE LOVES, BURST OUT CRYING WHEN HE COULDN'T DO SOMETHING SIMPLE, AND ASKED HER WHAT HE DID WRONG IN HIS LIFE TO HAVE THIS HAPPEN.

PLEASE!!!  I AM BEGGING EVERYONE WHO SEES THIS TO PRAY AGAINST THIS, AND ASK OTHER STRONG BELIEVERS TO PRAY.  THE JUDGE IS DESTROYING MY GRANDSON PSYCHOLOGICALLY OVER A DEMONICALLY-CONTROLLED FOOL.

I AM AFRAID FOR MY HUSBAND WHO HAS TAKEN CARE OF ME WITH NON-STOP PHYSICAL PROBLEMS, AND HE LOOKS LIKE HE'S READY TO DROP!  HE HAD TO PAY THE LAWYER A LOT OF MONEY BECAUSE OUR DAUGHTER DOESN'T HAVE ANY.  I AM BESIDE MYSELF.  I KNOW GOD HEARS MY PLEAS BUT WE ARE UNDER *SEVERE* DEMONIC ATTACK AND NEED EVERYONE'S PRAYERS.  THESE COURTS AND JUDGES CAN BE TOOLS FOR BELIAL.

My grandson has been forced to supervised visitations at court.  It is absolutely INSANE - her ex rammed her and totaled her car!  I don't know what that judge is thinking, but it's NOT RIGHT.  Her ex has assaulted her numerous times and now the judge is ORDERING HER to be near him.  We have no rights with those in positions of power.  But I am appealing to God.

PLEASE - I NEED EVERYONE'S HELP HERE.  I AM SCARED TO DEATH THAT MY GRANDSON'S FATHER WILL GET HIM AND HE WILL RUIN HIM. HE CAN HARM MY DAUGHTER, AND HAS HURT HER.  THAT JUDGE IS PLAYING WITH FIRE.  I AM SICK WITH FEAR. PLEASE ASK ANYONE YOU KNOW TO PRAY FOR BRANDON.

On February 14, 2017 at 9:05 PM, Heavenunlimited said:

I will pray.. Could you maybe get psychologists involved somehow or some form of counselors? Could you     Have supervised visitations? Would that be a possibility? Is there any way you could witness or fight it?

That's a good suggestion!  I'll run that by my daughter & husband. I've been so afraid I can't think clearly.

On February 14, 2017 at 1:54 PM, MorningGlory said:

I will pray for your situation, Cherubim.  I also suggest you hire a lawyer, if you haven't already.  Please continue to pray the blood of Jesus over you and yours and also the judge.

Thank you so much for your prayers!  I urged my daughter to call the court and a bench warrant was issued for his arrest.  Thank God, something good!  Please - if anyone sees this - if you don't want to see a young boy's life destroyed - please pray God's protection over him.  Please.

I AM SCARED TO DEATH FOR MY GRANDSON.  PLEASE - PRAY FOR MY GRANDSON BRANDON.  MY DAUGHTER HAD TO TAKE HIM TO VISITATION TONIGHT WITH HIS UNGODLY FATHER AND I AM SICK WITH FEAR.  HIS FATHER IS A PATHOLOGICAL LIAR. HE ABUSED HER SO SHE LEFT AND HE IS NOT SAFE.  His wife did terrible things in front of my grandson!  Yet this judge is making it go forward.  I am in such raw FEAR.  A non-Christian is making the decision.  Please pray!!!  I told my daughter she needs to turn back to God again.

SCRIPTURE says to "not take someone before unbelievers"  yet that is what my daughters ex is doing.  Please PRAY!!!  That judge is going to  hurt my grandson if he forces this.

Thanks very much.  We got a lawyer - it cost money we can't afford.  My daughter goes tonight - please pray for her.

On December 17, 2016 at 2:39 PM, MorningGlory said:

I just saw this post, cherubim, and of course I will pray for the Lord's protection over you and your family.  Please rebuke the attackers every time you feel them; rebuke them in the name of Jesus and they cannot stay in your home/office or wherever you are.   May He bless and keep you and yours.

Thanks Morning Glory.  We had another thing hit - and I experienced fear.  I've been 'taking every thought captive'.  Please keep praying for us.  My adult daughter is having a struggle with trying to keep her son's father from invading his life.  Please pray!  His father is not good to have around my grandson.  He is a liar - one of the worst I've come across.  He remarried a woman on drugs, and she did vile things in front of my grandson.  We went before a judge, and he is not good.  My grandson is doing well, and his father will disrupt his life.  He is bad news.  He assaulted my daughter and me, yet the judge is forcing her to bring my grandson to the court for his father to see him.  He has not paid child support for 9 years, and the judge said it doesn't matter.  My husband & I are sick over it.  I have been going before God repeatedly.

8 minutes ago, MorningGlory said:

Yes, I will pray for her.

Thank you.  It seems off - there is no reason she should be single.  I am thinking it must be spiritual now.