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  1. Aims81

    Pregnant and Alone

    Oh Melinda, thank you so much for sharing your story. I too hope God will show me the things he showed you. I am happy to hear that your daughter turned out to be amazing. Thank you for your prayers!
  2. Aims81

    Pregnant and Alone

    Thank you so much for the positive words of encouragement. I can feel your prayers and I read through them if I'm having a hard day. I decided to move to Colorado, where my parents live just to have more support. I'm in the process of transferring my medical insurance and I'm going to substitute teach here until the baby is born. It makes me sad to think that my baby boy might grow up without a father figure, but I do have a supportive family. I am still praying that God will work in my boyfriend's (I guess now my ex-boyfriend's) heart. Thank you again for your support.
  3. Aims81

    Pregnant and Alone

    Thank you so much for the prayers. I told my Mom about this website and how some people have been supportive and some have been judgemental. I didn't ask for lectures, I asked for prayer. I know that if I saw Jesus face to face and asked him to pray for me, he would not have pointed out my mistakes. He wouldn't have reminded me of the consequences of having sex before marriage. He wouldn't have quoted off verses as if I were a robot. He would have treated me like a human and probably would have focused on where my heart was. Then he would have done something practical like offer to drive me to the Crisis Pregnancy Center to get support. He didn't condemn people, he loved them. Some of his followers were the rejects and the outcasts; people who had failed miserably in life. They really weren't the most wealthy or in favor with the religious people. These unpopular but REAL people, were in his closest company. The people who have been nasty to me on this site are like the Pharisees in the New Testament. It's a good thing that I am a Christian, otherwise I may have gone out and gotten an abortion, based off of the way some people on this site made me feel.
  4. Aims81

    Pregnant and Alone

    Dear Royal Member, I am a born again Christian and I will raise my child to know about God. I made a mistake. But, I got on this website not to be condemned, but to ask for prayer. It's like kicking someone when they are already down very low. Telling someone that there are consequences when they have a baby growing inside of them is not needed in a situation like this. I was humbly asking for people to pray for my situation. So, thank you to everyone who has not judged and partnered with me in prayer.
  5. Aims81

    Pregnant and Alone

    Dear Other One, Thank you for taking the time to give a thoughtful response. I have read through it several times and it makes me feel stronger. We were signed up to go to counseling, but he changed his mind and said he needs to "work on himself"...ALONE. I am having a hard time knowing how to proceed with it all. I am glad that I found this site because I needed some encouragement.You mentioned a woman named Abbey, who is that? Were you referring the woman who also responded to my post?
  6. Aims81

    Pregnant and Alone

    I didn't realize that my photo would be associated with my prayer request. So, I took it down.
  7. Aims81

    Pregnant and Alone

    I am 20 weeks pregnant and keeping my baby. My boyfriend and I are in our 30's. One month ago my boyfriend decided he didn't want a relationship with me and "doesn't know what he wants." Now he wants nothing to do with the pregnancy. I feel alone and depressed. My prayer request is that God would tug on his heart. I really want to try counseling and I want to be a family with him. Please pray that he will change his mind because I do love him. I also want the baby to have two parents. I need wisdom to know how much to fight for this relationship. I wish I could find someone to pray with about this each day.