I'm mother of 2 kids. I am house wife and take care of kids for 10 years and not have job for 10 years because my husband won't let me get babysitter to watch my kids if I go to work. I not want my kids be alone with him at home all day because I know he not watch kids and not know how to take care of my kids. I tried to teach him how to cook and how to take good care of kids but He not listen to me. So I not go to work for 10 years because I not trust him. He is really lazy not go to work and like stay home play with computer all day everyday. I really want go to work to earn retirement good future but I not trust my husband. What should I do??