A question that I have encoutered frequently, as it relates to out relationship to God, is whether or not it is acceptible to question God. Specifically, to ask God, Why?
My answer is "no" and this is my reasoning...
"Why" is a control question. We want the answer, typically during difficult circumstances, in order to regain control over our environment.
For example: When you ask, "why did this person have to die" aren't you really saying, "please give me the answer to my suffering and confusion" which would in turn, if God chose to answer the question, would give you "control over your situation and alleviate the discomfort".
Another example: 'why did I have to get laid off? I have a wife and kids at home that count on me." Aren't you really saying, "please tell me why this happened so that I can alleviate this discomfort." "I am scared." "Please rid me of this unknowingness in order for me to gain back control over my circumstances."
We are asking"Why" to regain control of our lives during, usually, emotionally difficult situations.
God is not in the business of giving us control," ...for the righteousness shall live by faith". Galatians 3:11
It is during times of uncertainity that we are given the opportunity to receive the continued blessing of relying on God and His control while enriching our faith!
Life is a series of processess. When you are in one, there appears to be no end in sight. We want control, we want to ask "Why?"
It is relying on God's "sight"; Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord. They are plans for good and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope."
And the Lord says, "I will never leave thee or forsake thee." Hebrews 13:5
For it is in His name we pray,
Blessings.