Single Again

Then that makes me wonder about Judas. In order for God’s plan to unfold, there needed to be a Judas, just as much as there needed to be a Mary. So although Judas betrayed Jesus, was He not an important part of the plan? Condemned for doing that which He was created for?

That brings another question to light. What about parents who don’t come to know the Lord until after their children are grown? They did not have the opportunity to train them up in the way they should go. It’s all so unsettling to me. I find as I grow older, I become more fearful of God. Yes, I already have a daughter.

Hopefully you can help me with a thought that I can’t seem to shake. It’s about having children and Hell. Knowing that few choose to accept Jesus as their Lord and Savior, and thus are doomed to spend eternity in Hell, when we decide to bring a child into this world, are we not not in some way responsible for sending them to Hell? Is not the only way to be 100% certain that your child will not suffer in Hell is to not have them in the first place? I’m heartbroken at the thought that my child may go to Hell. Would it not have been better to not have her in the first place?