Zol

Hi everyone, thanks for your replies. Well, I am looking for a job but it is hard. My parents are acting upset about it and make me feel guilty. I have no idea how i will get out. i mean i feel like my parents would have a nervous breakdown if i tried to leave. i want to though. i want to get my own place and my own job. Yes, me and my parents are attached and co-dependent. Im trying to break free. they dont have friends or lives of their own and when i live with them neither do i. i mean, its hard to. their relationship with each other is unhealthy in many ways and I wanna get out. its hard for me cause i get guilty and i feel bad for them. please continue to suppport me, cause i need it! and pray for me please! thanks, Zol P.S. im a 27 year old female.

i dont know! the school my parents want me to go to is online anyway! so i mean, i dont know! I dont want to go to school! but i dont wanna do nothing! but then i do want to do nothing! i dont know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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tanks a billion!

Would someone pleassssseeeeeee look up the winning CA super lotto winers for september 8....please!!!!!!!!!!! i am at this cafe that wont let me get onto the page and i drove all the way out here for my dad to use the internet to get these numbers for him and i dont want to have to drive back again! PLEASE, youd be doing me a great favor!

OK so its a two part question, and , needless to say I am most interested in what Jesus would want me to do: 1) Er- I am in my late twenties and still live with my parents. It seems odd but it is also mutually advantageous. Uh...is it neccessary that I move out. I mean it's not that they want me to or anything , in fact they'd prefer I didnt. 2) Uh- ok so I grew up in a dysfunctional upbringing, my mom and dad made their mistakes. How am I sposed to tell people this? I prefer not to tell people this but then it seems like that is cutting out an important part of my life and then I have nothing to say and lack intimacy with others. But , if I was a parent , I wouldnt want my kid talking about what I did wrong, so I am torn. What am I supposed to say?

except maybe for me they are normal?

My fears of joining a church is that they will call me all the time and that i wont like most th epeople but ill have to be nicce and either go do what they ask me to or avoid them all together and feel bad, thats my fear...

Ok so my parents redecorated the kitchen and they dont wanna get it dirty so they put the table in the laundry room as well as the old kitchen supplies and we are to eat and use that as the kitchen while the new kitchen and the new appliances is just for show..is that cuckoo?

Im socially inept. For example, I go to cafes a lot...what is one supposed to say to the cafe people? Because i go there a lot so I feel like Im supposed to say something- but what do I say? I mean, when i go up to order my drink, what is one sposed to say?

Does the Bible suggest that staying a virgin is better than marriage?

What do you think of single modern day women who choose to have invitro and/or adopt without a man. DO you think it is selfish? Do you think the children will lack without a dad? And...what do you think of a child whose dad is frozen popsicle, would that affect them negatively?

Seriously though are there any men out there that are interested in girls like me? It seems men only like exciting fun party girls not quiet shy homebodies

Thanks guys I feel better!

Im pretty young and I hate parties, clubs, bars and alcohol. Not because Im Christian, just because i hate them. I am so lame that even with all the substances in the world i would still be the lamest girl around. I seriously wonder if something is wrong with me? Is something wrong with me? Why do others love it so much and I just hate it!

How can i find men like you Hazard and Fresno Joe and how will i know he feels this way about me?

Just that were both commitmentphobes so thers a lot of ugliness in between.

This guy I've known for 9 years now. We have been on again and off again for the 9 years. Long history, lots of back and forth and him leaving and me leaving and him being with other girls, yada yada... Sometimes we would stop talking all together. The last few years he has realized that I might be the one and has tried desperately to track down me "the one that got away." So when I got in touch with him, he was really happy. But then i got scared and ran away, which really hurt him. Then years later (just recently) I got in touch with him again which made him really happy again because he had been trying to find me again. He had heard some misinformation that I had gotten married and it scared him into trying to find me. When I contacted him he was really excited again and kept asking me out but then I kept saying the time was bad but he kept asking me because he really wanted to give us a shot. I also voiced my concerns about the fact that we seemed incompatible due to lifestyle differences which he disagreed with. So....then just the other day he asked me out one afternoon and i was sposed to answer his call that night to confirm. But i got scared so I turned my phone off and ignored the message he left me. Hours later I got an email saying "you're right, we're not compatible, im not good for you, youre a cool girl but not with me, we have a past but I know we dont have a future, i see no other reason for us to keep talking, goodbye." the next day he left a similar message on my phone. So now im sad and im wondering if im supposed to take what he said at face value? Is it really done with me for good? Does he really mean it?

I hate the taste of alcohol, I think its gross and I hate drinking. But then even Jesus drank wine which makes me think its OK to drink and I should maybe like to drink?

God always delivers.

Not sure.

Deep breathing helps.

Thi s thread makes me want coffee