Kay Posted July 31, 2004 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 10 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 267 Content Per Day: 0.04 Reputation: 5 Days Won: 0 Joined: 02/23/2004 Status: Offline Birthday: 02/14/1958 Share Posted July 31, 2004 Hi Kay...... It is part of our growth and development into the image of CHRIST. Confessing the truth to our FATHER is not a sign of weakness, but of strength. None of us are perfect. Confession also helps to weld the bond of trust between us and our FATHER, and should make us better aware, and even MORE thankful for HIS grace and mercy always demonstrated towards us. so if i am correct; (and this has been my experience) it is humbling, and being submissive to our DAD. It takes away the prideful heart. I was raised to be always right, and do nothing wrong, so this was a very hard concept for me to grasp. How can someone love me when I do stupid things? I always strived to do my best and be the best. Because of this I failed and have had the fear of being successful. But Jesus shows me everyday that being successful in HIS eyes are so very different than the world views. Wisdom, thank you :hug: Kay Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevehut Posted July 31, 2004 Group: Royal Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 26 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 3,216 Content Per Day: 0.43 Reputation: 43 Days Won: 0 Joined: 02/24/2004 Status: Offline Birthday: 05/16/1962 Share Posted July 31, 2004 Most people, in my experience, don't feel the need to confess. So by telling you it's unnecessary, maybe in some subconscious way they're trying to justify their own sin of omission. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kay Posted July 31, 2004 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 10 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 267 Content Per Day: 0.04 Reputation: 5 Days Won: 0 Joined: 02/23/2004 Status: Offline Birthday: 02/14/1958 Share Posted July 31, 2004 Most people, in my experience, don't feel the need to confess. So by telling you it's unnecessary, maybe in some subconscious way they're trying to justify their own sin of omission. HEY STEVE WE AGREE!! Kay like the new look Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ServingHim Posted July 31, 2004 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 14 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1,156 Content Per Day: 0.16 Reputation: 60 Days Won: 0 Joined: 07/19/2004 Status: Offline Share Posted July 31, 2004 Hello Ray: Listen......a very important thing to remember first is that our FATHER did not get caught offguard by your sin/failure. HE knew this morning's news about YOU last night and all about the failures you'll make tomorrow! Whether we want to admit it or not we have evil things constantly developing in our heart (Jeremiah 17:9). When YOU and I confess our sin (1 John 1:9) we are agreeing with our FATHER what HE already knows and has told us about ourselves. Be thankful that you feel uncomfortable about it. The HOLY SPIRIT is exposing the impurities inside you that HE wants to clean up. YOUR soul has a bitter Adversary who wants to see great disaster in YOUR life (1 Peter 5:8). And this is happening throughout the Body of CHRIST (1 Peter 5:9). Confession usually becomes the hardest because of the sin that so EASILY besets YOU and I. We feel dirty everytime we do it and cannot even lift our eyes towards Heaven. However, our LORD/SAVIOUR tells us differently in Hebrews 4:14-16. HE knows what is going on in your life. The deepest, darkest, most heinous sins inside of us are not hidden from HIS eyes. Ray, we make it hard because of the shame involved. We knew it was wrong BEFORE we did it, in most cases. But like I wrote in a thread in the General Forum, our FATHER wants to forgive and cleanse us MORE than we want to confess! HE is so full of agape love and bigger than ANY problems YOU or I have in our lives. Satan never wants us to forget the sin, no matter how dark it can get to be. But GOD has promised YOU that when you confess it (agree with HIM it missed HIS mark) HE will do something wonderful.....HE will remove it "as far as the east is from the west" (Psalm 103:12). Then Ray we are to go and sin no more. Depend on HIM to help you daily. Come clean with HIM about all the sin in your life. Will you fail/sin again? Yes. Will the war continue between your sin nature and the HOLY SPIRIT? Yes....daily. Should YOU throw your hands up in the air and just give up?? No. Ask the LORD to help you with a sincere broken heart, and a broken contrite spirit (Psalm 51:17). HE will do it. Believe it, Ray (Hebrews 11:6). **Psalm 44:21....Matthew 6:6-8** great post, wisdom...thank you for reminding us! Peace... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ServingHim Posted July 31, 2004 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 14 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1,156 Content Per Day: 0.16 Reputation: 60 Days Won: 0 Joined: 07/19/2004 Status: Offline Share Posted July 31, 2004 Hi Kay...... It is part of our growth and development into the image of CHRIST. Confessing the truth to our FATHER is not a sign of weakness, but of strength. None of us are perfect. Confession also helps to weld the bond of trust between us and our FATHER, and should make us better aware, and even MORE thankful for HIS grace and mercy always demonstrated towards us. profound truth! Again, wisdom, thank you for sharing! :il: 21 Jesus said to them again, "Peace be with you. As the Father has sent me, even so I send you." 22 And when he had said this, he breathed on them, and said to them, "Receive the Holy Spirit. 23 If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven; if you retain the sins of any, they are retained." John 20:21-23 Confessing outloud face to face to another is one of the most profound, humbling, yet awesome experience filled with grace for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kabowd Posted August 3, 2004 Group: Royal Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 112 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 3,489 Content Per Day: 0.48 Reputation: 13 Days Won: 0 Joined: 07/28/2004 Status: Offline Share Posted August 3, 2004 I think that not confessing is an act of pride. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoodSamaritan Posted August 3, 2004 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 7 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 146 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 06/10/2004 Status: Offline Share Posted August 3, 2004 It stands to reason that every sin we commit has a 'victim'. If we lie to someone, we sin against them AND against God. Why would we not then be accountable to these 'victims' of our transgression to express contrition and a genuine request to be forgiven? Jesus says that we must make peace with our brother before we can make peace with the Father--Confession is the manner in which we LIVE God's command. The 'guilt trip' lies not in the confession of our sins, but rather in NOT confessing them. God does not reject us in this time of vulnerability but takes this 'psychic load' we carry as a result of our transgressions and tells our spirit that He forgives us! In doing so, He gives us the grace to hopefully become closer to the person we truly want to be. GS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevehut Posted August 3, 2004 Group: Royal Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 26 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 3,216 Content Per Day: 0.43 Reputation: 43 Days Won: 0 Joined: 02/24/2004 Status: Offline Birthday: 05/16/1962 Share Posted August 3, 2004 I think that not confessing is an act of pride. Yup. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eric Posted August 5, 2004 Group: Graduated to Heaven Followers: 2 Topic Count: 50 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 4,073 Content Per Day: 0.51 Reputation: 43 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/02/2002 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/10/1923 Share Posted August 5, 2004 Quote good samaritan, aug 3rd. It stands to reason that every sin we commit has a 'victim' I can't agree with that. I do dumb things every day that do not involve anybody else, but still need to be absolved by the Father, so I confess them to Him and Him alone. Why should I go around telling anyone else I've been sinful. I can live with it because I know that the Lord will forgive me. It's between me and God if nobody else has been involved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ServingHim Posted August 5, 2004 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 14 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1,156 Content Per Day: 0.16 Reputation: 60 Days Won: 0 Joined: 07/19/2004 Status: Offline Share Posted August 5, 2004 I see what you're saying eric, as well. But I do think that the 'greater sins' are the ones that have victims...like abortion, murder, adultery, etc. Obviously our own little sins (like bad thoughts, grumbling, complaining, and more) don't necessarily have a 'victim'. Jesus answered him, "You would have no power over me unless it had been given you from above; therefore he who delivered me to you has the greater sin." John 19:11 Jesus noted that there is a 'greater sin' than perhaps other 'sins'...therefore, the greater sin, like the ones noted above, do affect other people, IMHO. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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