Guest benji Posted December 6, 2004 Share Posted December 6, 2004 What do I tell her? I was "in love" , blah, blah, blah. She dumped me. I didn't talk to her for four months. Now she calls up and tells me she dumped me for "Joey". Anyway, I'm trying not to hold a grudge and all that. I'm talking to her, and she begins to tell me how bad she feels cuz she cheated on Joey. She doesn't want to tell him. She wants to break up with him (Joey), but she doesn't want to break up with him. She can't decide, and she keeps asking me what I think. I don't know what to tell her. I can't even think straight myself. Every word she says tears my heart out again. Just hearing her voice twists my insides like a screwdriver (sounds cheesey, I know, but it's true). I don't know what to say or do. Anyone want to offer some help? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Can Do (Phil 4:13) Posted December 6, 2004 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 227 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1,004 Content Per Day: 0.14 Reputation: 9 Days Won: 0 Joined: 03/30/2004 Status: Offline Birthday: 01/31/1906 Share Posted December 6, 2004 (((((((((((((((((((((((BENJI)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Please, stay away from her. No phone calls, no emails. Pray for her, her heart and her salvation (if you can) but pray, pray, pray Give your heartache to the Healer Lord Jesus Christ. Only HE can fill the empty void that the pain has left. I really pray for you Benji. I had a boyfriend who took up with my best girlfriend and when he was tired of her, telling me every detail of their 'time' together, he wanted me back!! I was like...NO WAY Draw closer to the Lord Jesus during this time and make Him your lifelong love. YSIC Faithie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anne Posted December 6, 2004 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 55 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 923 Content Per Day: 0.13 Reputation: 32 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/14/2004 Status: Offline Birthday: 10/03/1974 Share Posted December 6, 2004 I'm in agreement with Faithie, Praying too Your Sister in Christ Jesus Anne Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UndecidedFrog Posted December 7, 2004 Group: Nonbeliever Followers: 2 Topic Count: 16 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 2,063 Content Per Day: 0.29 Reputation: 15 Days Won: 1 Joined: 08/02/2004 Status: Offline Share Posted December 7, 2004 Dear benji, This is just my opinion. You don't have to accept it if you dislike it. DISCLAIMER: I am not a christian. She dumped you for Joey. She obviously chose to be with Joey over you. She cheated on Joey. She obviously chose someone else over Joey. She says she wants to break up with Joey. You should be guided by what she does over what she says. She is still with Joey. If she asks you what you think, and if you want to be truthful you could tell her: 1) You don't know what to tell her 2) You can't even think straight 3) Every word she says tears your heart out again 4) Just hearing her voice twists your insides like a screwdriver But I advise that you simply to steer clear of her. She made her choices about you some time ago. You cannot rely on her loyalty. You need to make a choice that does not include her. Regards, UndecidedFrog Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cherub_Rocket Posted December 7, 2004 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 15 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 178 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 1 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/23/2004 Status: Offline Share Posted December 7, 2004 Benji, I've been there. My advice: stay away from her. You will not regret it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest benji Posted December 7, 2004 Share Posted December 7, 2004 thanks. you all are right. i already knew enough to know we could never be "together" again. i guess my head knew the truth, but it is a difficult struggle between the heart and the mind. thanks for the advice. i really need the encouragement. thank you again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lady323 Posted January 16, 2005 Share Posted January 16, 2005 hey, well if she broke up with u and then want to break up with joey then this girl doesnt even know what she wants, stay away, trust me it helps! also pray and ask God to help you get over her, if your really determined and you pray with all your heart the God will take her off of your mind, trust. God Bless, lady323 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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