GraceAboundsforever

In my youth I trusted God, even as a teenager before I came to Christ, I trusted God so I abstained from sex. But my first 3 years as a Christian I didn't really have any problems I could find a date, but thought yea I will trust God, and He will provide. Will now in less than 2 months, I will be 47 and still a virgin, I consider myself a loser, and am totally ashamed of myself, I not even a real man. I can't even recall what a date is. So if I'm not a loser why does God allow this, He knows I truly hate myself

Thanks I will probably pray first about this, but I'm sure this is God answer.

I really enjoyed this thread and agree wholeheartedly with it. But what do you do when you are the one who needs to be forgiven, and the one you have wronged you have no way of apologing too? I was on another Christian Forum, and before getting a correct understanding of a thead straight from a gal, I took my Sword (the Bible) and just started slashing I also used some other extremely harsh words, to put it mildly I was a total troll to this person, when confronted with my actions I gave a guarded apology, she deserve a total sincere apology; but I ask the Forum to cancel my account, so there is now no way to say how truly sorry I'm to this person. I keep thinking of that old love song, Say if you Happened to See the Most Beautiful Girl in the World, tell her I'm sorry. Yes she was beautiful, but her true beauty came from her being a Proverbs 31 woman.

AMEN! Excellent Post. The scarifices of God are a broken spirit: a broken and a contrite heart, O God thou wilt not despise. Psalms 51:17 The Lord is night unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit. Psalms 34:18 For the poor in spirit are temporary sick, but will be given fresh live with their answer; Hope deferred maketh the heart sick: but when the desire cometh, it is a tree of life. Proverbs 13:12 During His earthly ministry we see that Jesus knew sorrow and grief (Isaiah 53:3). For in taking Human form the Word of God became the Son of God (Psalms 2:7; John 1:14), and became a little lower than the angels (Hebrews 2:9). So in this state, the Word of God, was made poor: For ye know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that, though He was rich, yet for your sakes He became poor, that ye through His poverty might be rich. II Corinthians 8:9 Yes when people understand how poor our Lord Jesus Christ became for us, we truly understand His Kingdom. And if we accept His gift we will receive the Kingdom of Heaven/God.