It is all very simple.. man, if God has called you to preach, to pastor, to lead, then do so unto Him, and Him alone.
Woman, if God has called you to preach, to pastor, to lead, the do so unto Him, and Him alone.
He will take care of you as you follow Him, and obviously, you will never please all of mankind. Obey God. He is the One we will all answer to face to face.
Be blessed!