Pj

Breaking the abuse for that is what it is, will be difficult. Praise God he did grant me a miracle. I felt the Holy Spirit heal me one night when I had given up. How many are that blessed. I pray but not like I should for God to rescue me or show me the way. But I need to listen. I know what I need to do but its so hard. I'm in a wheelchair and frankly do all my own things I get no help as I see other children doing. Break a my heart. I have to realize he is selfish and uncaring. His wife is no better. I'm afraid scared to break all ties nut know I need to. Just walk away I guess. It is so hard. If I had support I will pray that God sends someone not afraid to step in and help. Bless you all.

Good thought as I certainly do not want my son as guardian. In fact thank you I will remove him from any ability to make decisions.

Im way too easy going. I've allowed my son to use and manipulate me too long. It's come to a head because he has literally bankrupted me. Now I should have stopped it but I just could not stand the cold shoulder or live here with them (my house) they are the only support I have. But it's out of control. I have no retirement we went through that. I knew better but I was so drugged going through stage 4 cancer I don't remember. Now he and wife do as they please. I get no help. Nothing but he expects me to keep on paying. I have no one else no church no family who care. Las t Sunday all our vehicles were all totaled by drunk driver. Mine covered his not in now to blame. But he is ow not going to help me at all I have no car so I'm stuck. I rented him one to get to work. I am so hurt that he could do this. Mad at me because I won't use money to buy the car he wants to use and go back into debt. They live here cann it throw them out little kids involved and won't endanger them. Please what do I do. I'm trying to be strong.

Thank you it is really appreciated. I wish I could help them. But I can pray and that is powerful.

Let me make sure we are not confusing things. I am pj and this was not my post. I was replying to the person who opened the topic. Please do not reply to me it is not my topic and I do not support alternative life styles.

Sorry I was replying to the post is being a Lesbian ok on which you replied. I am new here and was tying to reply to that pist

Sorry but no it is not ok if you believe the i word of God. ate you being honest with yourself. None of us can judge u it's up to our Lord. But I think reading your posts you want this relationship and are looking for approval. But that does not exist in the bible. I also have not seen you say why you think you are a lesbian other than you were abussed which does not always lead to that life choice. the sanction u seek does not exist, if u choose this way it is going against God written word. Only you can make this choice no one else can make it for you. We can pray for u and I will. I am sorry you are facing such a difficult time.

Bless you all. I will stay in contact and pray. I have been down this path before with her and did not communicate with her for years due to same behavior. Since then she is even more bitter and filled with hate over her past life. Honestly she was very spoiled and most kids and adults thought of her as a brat. She was the tattle tail, everything was her way. She was rude, etc.. I was her best friend when she lived here. But she isxstillbupsetcand remembers down to the smallest detail anything that was done to her and holds that grudge. Wane are talking 40/50?years ago. My heart so goes out to her as she is so alone and unhappy. I will continue to pray for God through Christ to reach out and comfort her. She is back to Her old ways where she now does not email and lies that she does not receive mine. But I can still send and see how she is. One minute she wants to die the next she is a fury I won't move in with her, I sooooo wish I could take her pain away. Please pray for her this is a soul in desperate need.

Thank you all for your replies and wonderful advise. As for fasting not an option for any extended period of time due to serious health considerations. Am I doing this for me. Good question, however no believe me it is hard to deal with the constant negative environment, nothing positive. It is because I care and she really needs the help. I have offered her to move here, financially she is in a bad way, no matter what is recommended it's negative for her, or will not work. It's almost as if she wants to fail. She is family and I don't want to give up on her, everyone else has. I will continue to pray and ask God direction and the path to follow. I so want her to open up and know his grace before it is too late.

Oops that should be dilemma.

I have a relative that I am trying my best to follow Gods teachings and talk, work with and witness to because I believe it is the Christian way. However she is an extremely difficult person , can be very rude, dwelling on the part, hates her now deceased parents, has no friends, complains of being ill, had a heart attack, bottom line is she is doing nothing to help herself. i almost feel that my interactions for her are nothing more than an opportunity to take her multitude of frustrations on someone for all the "evils" that have fallen on her. I have never met Simone this bitter. She claims she died for a minute but never saw a light no one came for her so she now feels Christ dies not want her. No one will have anything to do with her, except on Facebook but even though she has 3000 friends it's all about politics and nothing personal. i am doing my best to minister to her, to try and get her back on track, that God does love her, etc.. It is s battle. my Delia is she is making it so very difficult and at times I want to just drop her but Would Cfrist Drop Us, is what I come back to. Suggestions please on how I can reach her or do I move on with my life which seems very wrong to me as a Christian.