Hello, all. I registered in August, but have only posted a couple of times. Not for lack of interest, believe me. I help care for my chronically ill mom and 90 yr old grandmother who came to live with us in February( I live with my folks). This is an incredibly stressful position to be in . I am glad to do it, because, as a Christian, I believe it is my responsibility. However, I am extremely discouraged much of the time and often feel trapped by circumstances. I would like to hear from anyone who has experience caring for a loved one( parent, spouse, it does not matter). It feels like an all-consuming thing, I just am seeking encouragement that I am doing what is right in God's eyes and any ideas on how to deal with the stress in a Godly way. I want to be pleasing to Christ above all else. Thanks.