silviawang

i feel exhausted to explain,too complex the sociology issue

I hope GOD give me enough talent to explain this complex sociology issue Not in english But in my native language---chinese Translate into engish? Even plan to,i feel exhausted We may looked only a little difference in appearance But y can not understand us just like y can not understand Martian I need great talent to explain

I am the chinese and very Interested in india and Middle East And from the most Eastern end of Asia continent(whcih i am living)to The East Coast of the Mediterranean All i see is the sufferings and the bitterness of the women And then i put my eyes to the western world If there is still no pease, justice, protection for the women,i do not know where to find the light What y suffered is personal,and what Asian women suffering are systematic Yes ,y can tell me to find the Salvation from GOD-------so ,is this the very purpose we discuss in this Christianity forum? Do not underestimate the justice y got from western social system And y can not image how lots of Asian women living

In china,any woman demand the fundamental human rights for the women,will get the condemnation from all sides,from the most poor chinese men to the male celebrity The same situation in US??? For Example A famous chinese Educational experts declared that: The reason why china is so evil is bcs of the corrupttion of chinese women, he was apologized for this,but countless chinese men stand with him,and use his word to blame women

So y still do not understand the Difference between y forgiveness and the forgiveness the chinese male Christians demamd? y forgiveness was based on the fair judgment and full protection form the social system, the social system judged y as the victim,and revenged for y via “he is in prison for the rest of his life”, and the most important is: the other men, Trembleing before so tough punishment, dare not to hurt woman but what the chinese male Christians the demamd are: 1- they imply the poor wife is Guilty,and her sin is :disobey and disrespect the man,and for these 2 dis--,she should repent her sins to the husband who abused her like a wild beast 2- they bitterly opposed any kind of real punishment to this Serious Criminal,who abused his wife 100 times than y sisiter-law had suffered,they said :the oral repentance is the best punishment for the men 3- with the wife’s repentance(for she disobey and disrespect the man ),and with no any punishment to the devil-like husband ,these chinese male Christians declare that women are inferior to men,they say that the women are naturally more eviler and more stupider than the men!!! **************** Do y really can not understand the difference ? do any man in US dare to declare all above publicly? do y dare to live with these chinese male Christians?

terrible!! where is the police？

And ,are there anybody can explain to me: Why in the US,a woman was been abused so terribly,and there is no helpping from the Social System?and no punishment for the criminal?

If y word in this post is supernature Any word y said will be true in the future Do y dare to swear y will do forgive and demand no punishment,if y will do be beatted again and again？

And now y are Christian So tell me If him abuse y agina,or any other men abuse y as tough as y have experienced Do y forgive and do not demand any punishment of the criminal? and also if the consequence of y forgiveness is he beats y again and again do y forgive and forgive?

I try to find ways to insure Social justice and to protect the disadvantaged groups Y think i am in bitterness,y ,as a woman,y yourself quite this “justice and protection” discussion,ok?

Tell me ,how y avoid to be beated by him again? And also tell me,if the other men ,see his terrible act of violence but without any penishment,they abuse the women fearlessly ,and lots of the other women be abused bcs of y “Forgive and no punishment to the man”,do y think y have assistted in this crime?

So if y are not hate Why y Complain y suffering to me?

Do y know the physical strength gap between man and woman? Without the fearing of being punishied The men will abuse the women without scruple

Yes ,but the Social system will protect y and punish the person who hurt y But in china ,no matter how terrible the wife was be beated by her husband,seldem did the men got the punishment And the public opinion always blamed the poor wife: “she must did worng,so her husband beat she,the abusement do have the reasonable reason,and the woman deserve the beating”

Do y know what chinese male Christians are preaching in the chinese websites? A woman suffered 100 times than y sister in law,by her husband The chinese male Christians said that the woman should repent her sins of disobeying and dishonouring her husband,and can not flee from her devil-like husband ,and shoud accept her husband’s deadly violence in obedience I say no ,that man should be punished by law At least 4 chinese male Christians abused me days and nights in the forum They demand :no matter how devil-like the man treated the woman,the woman should always smile gently to the man,any condemn and complain,sorry ,they judge y as the evil woman! Do y think why i hate them so much??? Your killer only kills the body The chinese killers kill not only the body.but also the soul,the soul!!!

You Westerners Living too happy the life And do not understand what evil and suffering means Y are lucky Y are unlucky

pls tell me Woman is the same humanbeing as the man,not some kind tools,or animals,just for the utilizing by man,for the fun of man,and bo not be permit to have her own will ,own happiness,own rights ******************* I have made a detailed comparing tables---------- Between chinese male Christians and male Muslims,from all aspects The result is ,to the women,the chinese male Christians are tougher than the male Muslims,in some items,far more tougher I feel deeply helpless and despondent Maybe the only meaning of sharing the gospel in china is :the chinese had heard the gospel But i really do not sure in GOD’s eye Is woman as equal as man as a human? Bcs the chinese male Christians implied me year after year------women are far more less than the men,maybe somekind of animal with human shape,and do not deserved to be treated as a human.

The only mistake in that book is The pastor predictted that the chineses will be saved by Christianity And yes,the Christianity is spread rapidly in china But in the chinese male Christians’s preaching, the women look like the animal less than the humbing,and it is guilty to a woman if she demand any human rights they think it is sin in GOD’s eye,if a women thinks she is the human just as the men what kind a world!!!!

To understand what i said I strongly commend y a book <Chinese Characteristics> Written by Arthur Henderson Smith,a preacher in china Pls read Not for knowing chinese But for understanding the result of thoustands years of atheism

And to tell y the truth Form the chinese ethic I even do not sure the women is the humbeing, the chinese ethic implies me that the women maybe some kind of animal less than the humbeing,and do not deserve the human rights men enjoy naturally This is the result of atheism for thoustands years

In china,a woman is not a virgin before marriage,will be considered as the most dirty whore,the chinese men say: “this b* is only for use,and do not expect the love from us” But to a married man with mistress ,many mistresses,if his wife hates him and quarrels fiercely with him ,she will be judged as an evil and tough woman This Chinese ethic influence deeply in BIBLE explanation in china

One of them ridiculed me: “cry out loudly for the suffering of women ,and GOD even do not look at you”

From 2007,i dicussed with numberless chinese Christians in a hot chinese forum And i tell y Not some of them ,but almost all of them(chinese male Christians) See the women as the ............................................... I do not how to describe I have collectted 7 samples of them ,chosen randomly,to show their opnion about women,in their original speech And y will see A hell of women Deeply despair than y can image!

And about Shalom,this hebrew word A chinese male BIBLE learner(not Christian,bcs he think he is good enough to go to heaven ,do not need the redemption from JESUS) Told me Bcs the Jews only believe in OT,so although the modern Israel forbid the polygyny in law,but they allow the polygyny in reality I am so angry i submitted this to the Israeli consulate in shanghai Ofcouse ,i never get the answer Brother ,there is no peace for woman in the world............

One of the reasons I Exodus from chinese ethic and run into the promise Paradisal land--- Christianity Is bcs the chinese ethic is the purgatory to the women And i think the Christianity is give love, protection, justice to the women But i found that : The chinese male Christian interpret the BIBLE as the hell to the women