Stewart,
If you'd promise to read it I'd love to send you a book called Blue Like Jazz. I really identified with it, and I bet you would too.
I am a Christian, Stewart. But I've only come back to God a short time ago. September 25th, to be exact. I still have a lot of anger, bitterness, and flat out hatred towards many Christians. And guess what? It's okay. I'm working on it and God is patient.
Christians have done so much evil in God's name. They were way wrong and way off base. Please let me apologize to you for all of that. I've only recently come to realize that it's true: most of God's "saints" don't reflect him at all. I let my bitterness towards them crowd out my ability to actually see him for what he is.
I welcome you here, Stewart. Don't go anywhere. You're here only because you're looking, whether you want to believe that or not. I know, because I've been there. I've written horrible things about Christians and produced pornography, in part, to piss off the Christians from my past. God was there through it all, holding my hand and not judging me. He loved me despite who I am and what I did.
The same is true for you. Let me send you the book. My email address is:
photography4me@hotmail.com
Let me know where to mail it. I promise that will be the only thing I send to you and I'll never share your address.
And if you are interested, check out my blog. There's a "start here if you're new" link at the top and on the top right side column as well. Browse through that if you wish.
Again, I'm glad you're here.