nude posters on ur bf's walls

[Guest Bro David™]

David,

You are trying to cause division and strife here.  It is apparent by your comments that you want to bring hard feelings and division.  I see what is taking place.

Proverbs 17:14 The beginning of strife is like releasing water; Therefore stop contention before a quarrel starts.

In His Truth,

Suzanne

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Wow!,

LOL

I intended no such thing.

But glad your saying it, because all the people watching and reading not all of them are living in their own world.

I am sure some of them can see an attempt at feeble self pity.

Was I trying to bring hard feelings and division, just because I dis agree with you thinking up your own meaning to scripture ?

I am glad you see what is happening.

ROTFL

Like I said this conversation is so over.

Not all extremist are Muslim you know.

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[Guest Magdalene]

Hello, everyone. I'm the Magdalene that Suzanne keeps referring to.

Brother David, God never came down and said, "I don't want you going out with this guy." There was no verse in the Bible that hopped out and hit me with the baseball bat of the Holy Spirit. Do you know why? Because at the time, I longed to be happy. My now-ex made me happy. So, I did not ask God if I should have been with him. He was religious but the fruit of the Spirit did not show in his life. That should have been my warning sign. The Bible talks about how we'll know a Christian by the fruits he bears. My ex bore no fruit. But I blinded myself and it wasn't until I had traveled so far from God and was struggling with premarital sex did I bother to stop and listen. And then my ex showed enough love for me to suggest that I think what's best for me, even though he knew it would probably end in my leaving.

God gives us the tools and He gives His Spirit as a Counselor. He isn't going to take us by the hand every minute of the day like we're infants. He teaches us so that we know better. And this applies to the subject of a guy looking at pornography. It is best to examine the other areas of his life. Does he truly show the fruit of the Spirit there? Also, and I know this must sound corny, but who here can see Jesus sitting down with the latest copy of Maxim? If you know God and you can't see Jesus doing it, or at least agreeing with it, then it is wrong.

I have struggled with pornography. It is addictive and it pulls you from God. Any man who indulges in porn at the expense of his girlfriend should be avoided, because he is not in God.

And if anyone wants the full story, then please follow the link tsth (Suzanne) provided.

[Guest gods_lil_violinist]

ok i completely agree with you on the nude posters on the way. it totally grosses me out. and if you have a guy whos not willing to listen to your opinion and feelings there really not worth it. trust me i've been dealing with that. pray about it ask god what he wants you to do. i feel you have every right to be mad about the posters and ask to take them down. according to god we are to save our bodys for our husband and he should save his eyes for you. i'm sorry that you have to deal with this hope all works out in the end.

Edited April 20, 2005 by gods_lil_violinist

[Convert]

A man claiming to be a Christian who has nude posters on his wall and participates in pornography all the while claiming it is acceptable behavior. This, imo, is the epitomy of anathema. That is not to say that Christian men don't struggle with pornography. However, once constant struggle has turned into complacent submission, there is a problem.

I have struggled with pornography myself in the past. (And still do, occasionally) However, every man should be able to see that pornography goes hand in hand with lust and adultry. You cannot actively be involved in it and not become decayed to one extent or another.

At any rate, I would be outright against entering into a relationship with someone that didnt have a problem with porno and was even comfortable enough to display it all over his room.

Man, that guy just has no shame.

Anyway, I will pray for ya, but I would ditch the guy.