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does it really matter though? i mean i personally don't like bees. i fell off a roof once running away from one. and if it's a matter of polenating flowers, buttrflies do that. and there are probably other ways to make honey.

i'm agreeing with you here

HE IS RISEN!!!

for starters you could tell her that if she wanted an abortion (i'm not saying i support abortions) that getting on birthcontrol isn't so easy way out. it most likly won't kill them baby, just give a zillion birth defects like it'll have 20 toes or somthing.

for the saran wrap idea. you need to go to his house at night. with 3 rolls of saran wrap. you need to wrap it around the front, sides and back, and then bottom, to side, to top to side. it'll take like an hour. so everyone will need to be quiet. and there'll be some left over so if he has a basketball net in his driveway, saran wrap the car TO THE POLL and then weave saran wrap trhough the holes in the net. therefor, not only maing his car unopenable, but also imoble. lol

thanks. but like, what really kills me is she said "i'll never hurt him again" but what about her??? who's to say he'll never hurt her again? jeeeeez i wish god could put a lightning bolt between the two of them, make them hit their heads and forget ever knowing eachother, and then put them on sepereate side of the earth so they can never meet again. sound far fetched but that's what i think is best. i guess that's one reason why i'm not god. lol

NO!!!!!!!!!!!!! i just got a message from her and after getting my hopes up, she's staying with him!!! what can i possibly do to get through to her if she ignores EVERY SINGLE THING I SAID!!!! i just can't beleive this!

I LOVE THAT! LOL

exactly. and like i had a teacher one year that said she thought the mexicans had a right to be in texas because they were there first, but technically they weren't. like mexico owned the territory, but nobody lived in it till mexico let AMERICANS move in there. so we were there first, and we earned our independence from mexico. so they need to come here legally & learn the language, or just not come at all.

I LOVE IT!

thank you sooo much! i REALLY hope she takes my advice for once

oh wow. alright. i beleive illegal immigration is a HUGE problem here. especially in texas. i man jeez! from my experience, sure there are a few mexicans who were born here, try to do well in school, want to make something of their lives, but most of them are just wasting space and time in schools. you've got mexican's who come to live in america, REFUSE to learn english. and i don't mean have a hard time with it, i mean they just won't try it. and so you put them in classes taught by teachers that don't spek spanish. that causes wutie a lot of problems. a bunch of them are in gangs and a bunch of the girls don't even care about anythihng except looking pretty, and finding a guy to have babies with. you'll be walking down the hallways and see them having sex right there in front of everyone, and they just odn't even care. a bunch of them hop the border, and then come over here and act like they own everything. and some even stalk girls at the mall (i know this cuz it happened to me and my friend) and they like to randomly grab your hair in the hallway(i also know this from experience) now it may sound like i'm racist or something, but i honestly think i'm not. because i'm not saying i don't like any mexicans and they're inferior because their skin is brown. like, i'm friends with some who are nice, but i'm saying a lot of this based on experience from being around this group of people and seeing ow they really act. i think the only upside to having so many of them is that they can make some really good food. you just can't get mexican food that's as good as the stuff in texas lol

yeah...i dont't understand how tongues works...like someone talks adn everyone hears it in their own language? how can someone talk like that? i just don't get.

well. i have been praying. and today she messaged me with a problem they had. he said he wanted to take a break and then all of like 5 seconds later he pretended nothing happened. and later she was crying and called him and asked if he had been serious and HE YELLED AT HER FOR CRYING ABOUT IT! i was soooo mad when she told me this. and she asked what she shoud do. like if she should dump him or not. and i told her EVERYTHING that we had discussed on here. i didn't say we discussed it, but i told her the things. and said that i just killed me seeing her in a relationship like that, and that i didn't want to hurt her feeling but i felt like as her best friend, i had to tell her those things. and she revealed to me something else that was keeping her with him. she's scared of all the african-american boys at her school that'll see she's single and try to get with her. like, she's not racist or anything, but that school is somewhat ghetto. and it's paticularly the like nasty type of of african-american guys that seem attracted to her. so like she's scared that nobody'll be there to protect her from them. which only made me feel horrible for being here in alabama cuz as her best friend, I should be there to protect her and help her and make her less scared and i'm not. and i REALLY regret being here right now. and this entir situation is just horrible. but i am glad i told her everything that's been on my mind. so i'll just have to wait and see what happens next and just keep on praying

personally, i don't beleive that God would call homosexuality an abomination and then make it so some people have no choice but to be gay. i just makes no sense. sure maybe there's something in genetics that makes people more suseptable to being gay, but i think it's over-all a choice.

I agree. yay! i love being agreed with

i agree. babtism is a symbol of accepting jesus in your heart. kinda like wearing a wedding band when you get married. i doesn't actually change anything. it's just a symbol of lov for someone, in baptism's case that someone is jesus. it shouldn't be used as a way of joing a church...

i personally don't acept either. homosexuality is a sin and i'm currently not speaking to my grandfather because he had an affair with a woman for 18 months before my grandmother found out about it. p.s. THIS IS MY 100TH POST YAY!

For all I know, you are using fake names for your friends. The only thing I know about her from this thread is her name is Kelly, she is in a relationship with a boy named Travis, and they both live in Texas I don't see any real personal information from that, and there is nothing that would lead me or anyone else to find out who she actually is. I would hope she wouldn't have a problem with you using an example with her first name, but maybe she would be angry, I don't know. If she gets upset, I would apoligize, but explain you did it because you care for her well-being. It's obvious you want what's best for her, considering you brought this situation up on a christian forum. I hope that she could see your good intentions through it. well i didn't mean personal info on finding her...i meant i'm telling people about ehr and her boyfriend (whom i didn't even think of using fake names for...)and how he's treating her especially since i kinda called a truce between myself and him (cuz we like totally hated eachtother) but i only di it cuz kelly was BEGGING me to because she could stand having her best friend and boyfriend hate eachother. as far as she's concerned, he and i are friends...i just odn't really know how to bring this up to her you know what i mean?

exactly. one thing about all this that really bugs me is that i know she and i are both too young to really know what love is. her least of all. beleive me i didn't think you were sounding mean at all. so i just have one more problem..let's say i DID show this to her, and she got angry at me for putting her personal life on the internet. what would i do then?

***''No one else will ever want me now." "I can fix him." "What he does is really my fault anyway." "I'll prove everyone wrong: I'll MAKE this work." "I think I love him, isn't that what really matters?"*** she's said things like those to me before. she's now convinced she loves him, she thinks nobody else will want her, she thinks she can get him to change for her, and she wants us all to be wrong. and the thing is, i HAVE talked to her the way you suggested. there's like no getting through to her. i've told her time and time again she deserves so much better and when the time is right she'll find that person that's better, and she always agrees for all of about 1 minute then it's like she forgot everything i said. and yes, we do share the same faith, but her mother doesn't. her mom is a mormon and practically forces that faith on kelly. i've taken kelly to my church a few times and she loves it. she dreads going to her church but looks forward to going to mine. it just so happens that her mom doesn't let her go more than like once a month. because it's too often. and i'm living with my dad this school year in alabama so i can't even physically be there or her, and she can't go to my church. this is all horrible. the thing is, at first she wanted to break up with him, but now, she's convinced she loves him, and can see herself being with him forever. and beleive me when i heard about the pushing i canfronted him about it right away but he got all angry (which i can't really blame him for) but then i talked to kelly about it, and she completely denied it ever happened. she said he never pushed and never would. so how am i supposed to talk to her about it if she swears it din't happen? and i don't even know where to start with her on the messaging thing. like, it was months ago. i just don't know. why can't he just be a good boyfriend and a good person so none of this would have to be happening? and i just don't understand how God can let this happen. i mean, kelly is a good person and she doesn't deserve this! gosh! i just don't get it!! well thanks for your help akiko, peaches, and iryssa, but i'm still so lost

i totally think god gives us dreams for a reason. like the other night i dreamed i was at a church in the youth group they were gonna to a bible lesson. so they wanted us to split up into two groups. so (this may make me sound a tiny bit...i dunno...conceded? ha ha) all the cool people(inlcuding me) went to one group and all the weirdos went to the other. and so i, along with 2 other people went to the weirdo group so they coukd have a few cool peoole in their group too. (in the dream this seemed like a totally selfless act. which it kinda was just in a somewhat rude way of saying it if that makes any sense at all?) then they had us all go outside and hold onto a fence. then they set everything on fire. the fire skipped over me and the the other 2 people that selflessly joined the looser group and burned everybody else. but none of the burned people died. the just looked all burned up. then they pastor explained that only the selfless people with jesus in their hearts would be saved from the fire. so i talked to my mom about it because she's pretty good at intepreting dreams. i'm not saying she's joseph with the coat of many colors, but she's pertty good with psychological things. anyways, and she said that maybe it was a reminder from God that i need to keep Jesus in my heart and be less selfish.

alright, like, by best friend, Kelly, is dating this guy named Travis. They've been dating for about 6 or 7 months now. and this guy is sooooo not good for anyone to be dating. much less a girl like Kelly. almost immediately after they started dating he was trying to get her to have sex with him. and she told him she didn't want to and he said ok and he'd respect that. But then later on he was right back to trying to get in her pants. so that whole getting and losing his respect process has repeated like a hundred times. but there's still more. After maybe 2 months of dating, she listened to me and all the rest of her friends who were saying she needed to break up with and so she tried. But he told her that he loved her soooo much and would kill himself if she seriously broke up with him. so naturally, she didn't take the risk of being the reason he takes his own life. AFTER 2 MONTHS OF DATING HE SAID HE'D KILL HIMSELF IF HE LOST HER??? and not to mention that my friends have seen him yell at her and push her into a wall. AND he BURNED a K into his arm. that's just creepy. and one time a girl messaged her on myspace asking if she was still dating travis and kelly said yes and asked why, and the girl said because travis was trying to get her to date him! and the girl forwarded the messages to Kelly and they said things like: Travis: will you go out with me? Dez (the girl): aren't you still dating that kelly girl? Travis: no. we broke up a while ago Dez: then why does her page still say she's dating you? Travis: she's obsessed with me Dez: well why does your page still say your dating her? Travis: i haven't gotten around to changing it yet. Can you beleive that? and when kell talked to him about it he said it was his cousin on his account sending those messages. i still kinda didn't beleive it in the back of my mind, but as of yesterday i REALLY don't beleive. i was talking to my friend Chandler about it and she told me that while he was dating a girl named Sara, he was trying to go out with Chandler. Not a single one of Kelly's friends like Travis. we all hate that they're together and we have no problem telling her that either. we all care about her too much to just sit there and watch her go through but every time he does something and we tell her she needs to break up with him she's like, "well.... i'll talk to him about it, and he'll change for me" and yes he always does change for her....for a few months. then he's back to normal. how do i get through to her?

ummm yeah...i'm pretty sure without reading anything about it in the bible, that God loves us too much to put satan in cahrge of us. because if satan were in charge of us, he'd make life miserbale. there'd be like zero good in the world. i don' think satan's in charge of us. sure he tempts and manipulates people every now and then, but he doesn't completely control those people unless they chose to let him. and everybody in the world doesn't chose to let him.

yeah, i was thinkin about taking a break from all that after he and i break up. i'm pretty sure what i've gotta do now. i just gotta figure out when and how. but thanks for all the help guys