papa T

1) + and + = Positive 2) + and - = Negative 3)- and - = Positive when two ideas are similar or the same....there is a positive impact at least from a personal level. when two ideas Clash....there is a negative impact caused by discention and mistrust and pride. when two ideas are negative....pride is not involved...cuz noone tends to battle of something that is wrong, mistrust is not present...cuz both know they are wrong..and are merely tryingto mutually find a positive solution. what was that proverb?....the one about fighting anger with anger causes strife...while if you fight anger with a kind word...then it anger is lessened ..or something to that effect..... I just wish we could all get along...put pride aside..and let God Lead us ALL to where we should be....at Peace, with ourselves,eachother,and Our Lord. is that two cents worth yet?

What made me smle today?...hmmm....Talking to my friends annik , carl , and andrea.....other than that....the fact that i woke up this morning...is always something to be smiley and thankfull for.....Thank you Jesus.

sigh........it was a terrible day....but hey....not because of Valentines day....just cuz....as far as valentines... one person...said it to me....two sent email....other than that .........oh yeah....... not that it matters anyways..... Trust in the Lord with all your Heart, Mind, Soul, Body...... Happy belated valentines everyone

Hi Fire.... Just to let you know.....Been there done that.....actually i was on the end you are on.....the trying to be friends end... Its difficult....trust me I know....I will keep you in my prayers.... God Bless....see ya around chat

Is nothing sacred anymore?....not even the union of man and wife....Im at a loss for words

the conflict inside people....concerning sex.....is totally intense when it comes to Christians I feel your pain....and I know your dilema....Jesus is your strength....Cling to Him....and dont look back... Repent....and It is forgotten forever more.....Stick to your guns and Im proud that you made that decission together.....that took such great courage......God Bless You both

Hi First of all....I totally understand the pressures of being young....I was once...lol We all fall victim to some form of manipulation or coersion at some pont in our lives... but im glad you realized what was happening.....got up ..brushed yourself off.....repented and continued your walk with God.......Bravo.....Your a smart one to figure it out so quickly.....usually takes me years to figure such stuff out...and many times falling....Keep up the good work.... God Bless you Terry

<---tempted every day....falls almost as often....Thank God that Jesus forgives and remembers no more....PTL

Gowyay......I feel your pain...and believe it or not....I totally understand where your coming from....I just got out of the same type relationship.....Relationships are supposed to be 50/50, give and take, Honest, Caring, compassionate, etc but when one gives and gives and gives..and gets nothing back that they need...then eventually the giver will become empty...and become resentfull....and very very hurt....I've been there...done that....and for me it was to the point that I totally lost myself in trying to become the person my ex wanted me to be just so I would recieve something loving back from her....but that doesnt work either...eventually you would become so Hurt, Lost, alone, doubtful, etc....that you would probably slip into some sort of depression....like I did...and take it from me ..the only thing that is leading me out...Is Jesus....pray...stand firm in your morals and beliefs...ask God to "let His will be done" and for God to show you the way to go..and I recomend praying for the strength to endure this onslaught of emotional barrages that will come upon you....You may even feel like your insane.....I did....not a nice feeling....anyways...I hope this helped a bit..... again...I say.......I feel your pain....I understand....you are not alone. May God Bless you and Keep you in all that you do Terry

hi wills mom.....thanks for reminding me....God is faithful...and ever watching his flock Thanks for your prayers....May God Bless you in all that you do Terry

Smiles.....i hope you realize how highly i think of you....we've only known each other a short while...but I'm Glad God brought you into my life....God Bless You Huggerz and many more where that came from Terry

Just an ammendment to the last post by me......Feeling alot better....I hope it lasts...PTL When can I get off this rollercoaster?...... weeeeeeeeeeee.....Sigh

no words to describe the emptiness i endure today.....Help me Lord God.....please fix this....or let me die....no more, I can't do this anymore.....Please make it stop!....In Jesus name I ask this...amen

Smiles....Thanks sweetie....I liked talking to you as well.....my home comp crashed last week...just got it fixed...and my work comp wont let me run Java programs to enter chat..but i could get into the boards....but I'm back..... Thanks for your prayers. Grace......wow...that pretty much sums up the past year and a half of my life....I was talking to a awesome christian friend alot today.....when i came home..and checked this message....the confirmation was indisputable.... Thanks for the words of wisdom and love from our Lord Jesus Christ.....my heart is so open to Him and so soft that it is almost hard to hold back any tear.....what a mess i must seem...but thats ok.....my tears are that of prayer....and the ache of dispair is that of my healing.....as far as my ex is concerned...she needs Jesus soo bad.....and thats the number one hope that I have for her.....my heart breaks for her as well...watching her struggle through this anguish....please pray for her...she is an awesome girl who is under such attack from the enemy, because he sees the bond that we have..even now....as friends...and satan is afraid that God will use our bond to bring her to Him...through my living for Him...she sees my life changing and she sees my heart breaking but shes sees my walk becoming stronger through Jesus Christ.....Last monday was awesome.....A begining....but I walk carefully...not to cause her to stumble...and I pray for the direction of each step I take..as not to make her faulter.....My heart will rejoyce...as will all the angels of heaven when she comes to Him....Praise the Lord always..amen Thank You Jesus for your wonderful gift.....Love....for us from You....for You from us...and to each other May the Lord bless you and keep you in all that you do..according to His will...amen

ever try to imagin what Jesus would look like while he carries you?.....just a thought!...sometimes i imagine it like a comic strip.....with jesus holding me so tightly while i lay limp in His arms..almost falling to the ground...But Jesus stands strong with a Big smile on his face and a tear in His eye.....and the bubble from the Lords mouth says "This I will Gladly do for you my precious son" YBIC Terry Huggerz angels

angels...........you made me cry......thank you sis for your prayers....This is honestly the most difficult thing i have ever had to go through...and its good to know that My gf and I are in your prayers..and that our children are with the Lord. Oh by the way....My ex's name is Emily.........and as for our children.....their names are Andrew and Emma. I also pray to see my little ones soon.....Come Dear lord..and take us home..... Terry

Trav.....hugz sweetie....thanks for the prayers...it means so much to me to know that You are praying for me.....the bench with papa T...thats kinda neat.....hugz sis....you are in my prayers as well.... May the light of God follow you and shine on the true path that you are to follow on this dark earth! Terry

Faithie....thanks sis...((((((((((((((((((((((faithie))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) yes.....Jesus wept...thank you Lord Micah68.....yes I understand the reasons for my grief...I fell...and I fell hard...I take responsibility for that...I repented of that....and I pray for strenght to endure this grief. Set my life straight...thats exactly what id love to do...I pray for constant direction...because I have no way of knowing weather to turn left, right, go straight, go back, stand still....cry, laugh,yell,scream....the pain is unbearable...i shake as i write this, i appreciate the advice....thanks....as for my girl...i ask that you pray for her salvation... and yes..i am on the road back to God....if I wasnt..id be dead right now...thank you jesus..for saving me once again.... Leonard....I know you say that in love my friend....and yes...I know...I know the reasons of my grief...but how do we deal with it...once we repent...and try to make things right. I ask for your prayers....for my ex..and for myself..that we may endure this grief...and come through this pain with the praise and glory of God on our faces...and His words on our lips Bless you all I

the Biggest Hug to you .....I truely feel your pain....I cried when I read your initial Post My life is almost a carbon copy...with a few other "circumstances" to mix it up a bit more. Hun...just hold on to God...it may be quite a ride...but God has perfect timing, perfect faithfullness, perfect love....I tell this to myself as well....like i said...i'm in the same boat...sort of...only I have different circumstances. Lonliness....yeah...it sucks But remember...God is truely always with you. I'll pray for you.... aww ..ok..another hug for you... *hugz* Hope things work out for you. Terry

Hi Bros and sis's Havent been here in a while....sorry bout that Anyways...Over the past year and a half...my Girl friend and I were engaged...she egot pregnant twice...both times..she lost the children...first one..a boy...born alive at 5 months but died in my hands due to underdeveloped lungs....the second one...we assume was a girl...spontaneously aborted herself....at 3 months.... My GF and I have had such a hard time with this...and its now been over a year since the last one...my GF..actually now shes my EX...has been in a self destructive role...doing everything from drinking and drugs to pushing away everyone who cares about her. Myself..I have been severly depressed...due to the loss of our children..and now to the loss of the one who I love more than myself...Her heart is broken so bad...and Iask for prayer to aide her and give her strength..and above all else...to bring her to Jesus..she is running away from everything positive and good in her life...and she desperately needs God. I ask for prayer for myself to deal with the loss and lonliness i feel every second of every day...I would like to be reuntied with her..but i leave that in God's hands...as I hope you pray for that as well... Also....Any advice for grieving in such instances..perhaps a bible verse or so to show me and her directions in which to go.....were both so confused and hurt...PLEASE PRAY!

did some one say... "COFFEE".....yes please

Faith..... :hug: :hug: Please dont go...perhaps im being selfish in saying this....but you have so blessed my life by just being here with your shoulder for me to cry on....I look forward to seeing you here...and I cant imagine coming here and you being gone We all Love you so much faith :il: Please reconsider :hug: :hug:

Papa ....I'm a Father T....Terry(my First name) 2 and 2 together = papa T :t:

<----male...seems to be a minority lately here....lol..... :t:

we all need patience......we live in a fast paced world....and we are bored stiff...so when we drive we just want to go nowhere really fast....