Thanks everyone for your replies, I think Shiloh kind of reiterated my concerns on a lot of house churches. Alex, your group sounds very good and the kind of group I could fit into very well. Like Shiloh I live in a rural area too (small town of less than 1000), there was a house church here but they were Oneness Pentecostal without the dress code. Anyhow I think house churches can be good if they are like what Alex described, but as I mentioned before having done some surface level research some (not all) of them just seem really antagonistic to the traditional church, I think that is my biggest problem with it. A lot of people point to the church in Acts meeting in homes, but they fail to mention that Paul also held meeting in a public hall in Ephesus.