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Thank you. -corey-

Thank you very much Everyone for you words of wisdom. Sometimes the regrets bother me more than other times and I guess lately they've been bothering me more. I do think part of the problem is I need to forgive myself, but I also wonder how to forget and move on? I know the Lord has forgiven me for the things I've confessed and repented of, but that just doesn't seem to be enough sometimes. Maybe it's just the enemy reminding me of these things, IDK. I appreciate your advice & wisdom. blessings; -corey-

Thank you, All, I appreciate it.

How do you deal with them? I'm now 50 y/o and I have plenty and sometimes they weigh me down way too much. thanks; -corey-

To each his own, I don't see anything wrong with them. But I don't see them as a "lifestyle", not exactly sure what you mean by that. I have 4 tattoos. I just got them because I liked them. Two are Christian themed. I think a lot of times after a person gets their first they realize they're not painful so they opt for more. And that's probably why you see some folks with a lot. They are expensive and one needs to make sure it's something they want for the rest of their lives. I love mine and am glad I got them. When I get some extra cash, I want one more, hopefully in the spring. blessings; corey

My very first dog I got, I also worked, so he was alone most of the day. I kept him confined to the kitchen when I wasn't home. But as he grew, he was really a spoiled brat. A friend of mine recommended sending him away to a training camp. I don't know if you can afford this or not, but it was so worth it! The dog came home a different animal. Of course, they had to train me on what they did and I had to stay ontop of the things the dog learned. But what a time saver. The hardest part was the dog was gone for several weeks and I missed him dearly, but it was very worth every penny. Then, the next two dogs I got I adopted as adult dogs. Did you get your dog as an adult or a puppy? You just said your hubby brought it home. The first dog I rescued we assumed she was abused by her previous owners and she chewed up everything, including my sofa. I managed to work around her chewing, but she also got into biting and bit me three times. AFter the third time, I knew it was time to put her down. If she would bite me, God only knows who else she may bite and I didn't want a law suit. But, I loved her dearly and couldn't do it, so my parents did it for me. The third dog I got I rescued from the German Shephard Rescue, she was 11 mo's old when I got her. She was perfectly trained. She was owned by an elderly couple that had to move and couldn't take the dog with them. I've had her now for five years and never any problems with her. God blessed me good with this dog. I think my point is, try to send your dog to a training camp. And if/when you get another dog, adopt a full grown dog, but do your research and know the dog's background. corey

I would like to add my 2 cents to this thread. I am a 45 y/o male, never married, live celebate, never had kids, etc...however, I would, Lord willing, like to get married some day. Mostly for the companionship. See for me, I am impotent. I realize, that would have to be brought up before a marriage, but isn't it possible for me to find a wife that wouldn't mind getting married knowing that it would be a celebate marriage? And I would think that it is possible that there could be a dozen other reasons folks would want to get married, yet remain celebate. So, my opinion is, I don't think it's wrong. But, please correct me if I am wrong. And please correct me if I am wrong in even wanting to get married myself.

Praying! I can relate. I am 45 y/o single man. Never married. No children. My oldest sister died at 34 leaving one son. I tried to adopt him but lost in court due to various circumstances. My other sister is married now for over 25 years. Has 3 kids and one grand child. I suffer from major clinical depression. I take meds for the depression. And now I recently found out about some ill health issues that I will have to deal with the rest of my life. Just before I found this news, I had decided to step out in faith and say that I would be married within 2 years. Now, I doubt it. Who's going to want to marry an old goat with these problems. I think there are more people in this boat than we realize. And the Bible does say it's better to remain single if you can. Well, I think most of us that are single, it wasn't by choice, but maybe it was God's choice. He kept us seperate for a reason. And remember, in heaven there is no marriage or giving in marriage. So, we will fit right in. And I think that we are so close to the end, that we won't be single too much longer but instead married to the best Groom around and that would be Jesus Christ! If He set me aside just for Himself, who am I to argue with that.

Kenod; Are you referring to the Baptism of the Holy Spirit by means of speaking in tongues? If so, do you believe that gift is for everbody? Or do you believe that some people just are not blessed with that gift? corey

I agree with Butero. Exactly how I see things.

you know, I'm not one for causing a scene, and I am fairly shy. It would be very hard for me to go to the Pastor about this. I know for the first few times you hoped you were wrong. But now, you know you're not wrong. I am a guy, and I hate being hugged. When I get hugged, I never say anything because it is very rare, and it is people that love me. They took the time to get to know me, etc. I know, sounds like I'm rambling, sorry. I just want to lead up to the punch line. I 100% agree with the advice you got from Mike Irish! Use your knee! God gave you two of them. I have never been gropped, so I don't know how horrible that must feel. But, you have allowed this jerk to grope you way too many times. It's time you taught him a lesson. You may be shy, but you can defend yourself. And I am willing to bet you will get a lot of "Thank you's" From other women who also don't have the courage. God Bless You and I hope & pray you can solve this matter soon. corey

Hannah; I am very sorry things have turned out this way. My only suggestion is that you seek out a Medical Doctor ASAP. From reading your previous posts, you were taking Anti-depressants or something similar. I too take medication, and most people don't understand how miserable life can be when you're not taking your medications. But now that you are with child, don't just start taking the medication again without first checking with a Medical Doctor. My thoughts & prayers are with you. May God be with you and Bless you through this most difficult time in your life. And might I suggest you also find yourself another church ASAP. You need to stay plugged into the "Family of God". I am quite sure you can find a church where they will help you out in your time of need. in Him; corey

Wow, this post has really gone the gammit. I haven't posted in ages but wanted to add my two cents. I think it is sad that folks at your church shun you just because you're a "single mom". That shouldn't matter one bit. And they don't need to know why. I wouldn't tell them, it's none of their business. I was taught that the church is supposed to be like a hospital, a home for the sick, and those who need Jesus Christ. Jesus didn't judge the lady who was caught in adultery, He said, let him who has no sin cast the first stone. It sounds from your post that these women are casting stones. What you should be getting from the church is help and support. So, it sounds to me like you need to find yourself a new church. I don't think all churches are so judgemental. Whatever happened to removing the plank from your own eye before you remove the speck from your brother's eye. The church is full of sinners {I'm not saying you're a sinner cuz' you're a single mom} and hypocrates, but isn't that where they belong? I praise God that you are a Christian, period. All the angels in heaven rejoiced the moment you accepted Christ as your personal Savior, and that's what we should do too. I am a single man 45 y/o, never married and I know all too well the judgements people pass on to me. But the bottom line is, it's none of their business. in Him; corey

Thank you Ted. I have done so much web searching that it just made me more confused with all the IEEE1394 and the USB 1.5, USB 2.0 and Firewire. I just needed somebody to help me put it all into perspective. AGain thanks a lot. -c-

I just bought a new PC. I thought that USB 2.0 was the same thing as Firewire. Is it the same or is it different? I also thought that I would be able to plug in my USB 1.5 into the USB 2.0 plug, but cannot. Now I am totally confused. Would anyone care to share some light on this matter for me. I'd be most apprecitative. Thanks in advance. in Him; -c-

And I thought partial birth abortion was the worst thing that could happen to a baby. But this takes the cake. God have mercy on our country. I know a couple who have a downs child. And the child is so full of love and such a wonderful child. I couldn't imagine if they had "killed" her just because she was downs as a new born. All the love her family and friends would have missed out on. in Him; -c-

Well, Praise the Lord! I love hearing such testimonies. I sure hope the Lord intervenes to help me out to. It seems a bit of a stumbling block to be a Christian and smoke. Almost feel like I'm a hypocrate. in Him; -c-

I had got a real good idea given to me, but it wouldn't work for me. But put a picture of your kid or kids on the front of the cigarette pack and every time you have a cigarette you'll have to think of what you're doing to them. It matters not for me as I don't have any kids, but I thought it was a good idea. in Him; -c-

Thank you Ted

Ok. YOu guys are totally misrepresenting me and my questions. I retract my note. And I am not posting in this thread any longer. I do not want an argument. I just wanted to know if the Lord had something in store for our country as we are on the downslide. in Him; -c-

Hey, I'm sorry. My post wasn't meant to offend anybody. I am just wondering if the Lord has something in store for us for the way we are taking Christianity out of everything. As I said. I don't have the gift of prophecy and I'd like to know if there's any pending doom awaiting us. I love the USA. I said so in my note. So please give me a chance here. I'm just asking a serious and honest question. As for my voting for Mr Bush. My regret is simple. He seems to have no flair for foreign affairs to me Bush's foreign affairs means dropping bombs. That's not always the way to go. That's all I meant. So please calm down and give me a break. in Him; -c-

Thank you folks for such great replies. I feel I understand the scripture now. It actually scared me!!! And I appreciate your thoughtful responses. May God bless you. in Him; -c-

You know, I am doing an indepth study of Ezekiel. I am reading an old commentary at the moment, "Ezekiel" by Gaebelein. I notice that the countries with pride & wickedness the Lord cuts down. He doesn't allow them to prosper very long before He sets them in their place. It is my opinion that the USA is full of pride and wickedness. And if you ask me Donald Rumsfeld is the opitimy of arrogance. And while I voted for Bush, I am sorry that I did. One chapter I just read speaks of the leaders as well as the country itself. So I wouldn't be surprised if God had something to say about our leaders too. At any rate. I do not have the gift of prophecy. And I am wondering if anyone out there with the gift of prophecy, has anything to say about the USA? We sure are an arrogant country. We think we are the best in the world. And we are very weatlhy. Yet, we kill our unborn children by the millions. We have all but taken God and Christianity out of our country. It only seems fitting to me that God must have something to say. And BTW, I am not anti-American. I have my Flag Proudly Displayed today in rememberance of 9/11 I love my country and am glad I was born here than anywhere else. It just seems to me we are going from bad to worse and I wonder if God has something to say. Any responses would be appreciated. in Him; -c-

Hi Folks; As most of you know {that know me or read my testimony} I am ex-gay for 11 years now. When I first left the lifestyle, I told God I would give Him 1 year to make me straight and let me get married. I didn't want to be alone. Or I would turn back to the lifestyle. Well, that one year has turned into 11 years. I am almost at 12 years now. I really feel ready and I really want to gte married. There are very few types of women that can "turn me on". And I know that that comes with God and who He picks for you for a bride. So what do you think of my praying for to get married? I will be 45 next week and I don't want to grow old and die alone. I realize I'm too old to have children, but I'm not too old to get married for the first time {am I?} I really could use the companionship also. I own my own house and it's tough to have to handle everything alone. And I do battle lonliness at times. It comes and goes as to how strong the lonliness is. If you are in agreement with me, would you mind praying for me. So I can know God's will in this. And so that maybe He would bring that special woman into my life. She will have to be special because being ex-gay, I think I have to be honest with her and let her know of my previous lifestyle {what do you think?} Any words of wisdom or advice would greatly be appreciated. I didn't know what forum to post this in so I chose this forum. I hope that's ok. in Him; -c-

What is the ecumenical movement? Thx; -c-