sober9-18-02

Im stuggle God would want a baby back in heaven if God blessed you to be pregnet why would he call a baby back home I just do not understand Gods ways. My heart is so torn up my niec passed away min before the new year she died in my sisters arms Im hurting to see my sister heart toern what advice can I give my sister and my nefew and his wife. Someone who can help me understand a little any advice is fine I want to help I just do not know how

OK Today at work my boss ask me a question I could not answer so anyone help. She even said if someone can aswer it it could make her decide to give her life to the Lord. This is not a Joke!!!. If in the begging God creadted Adam and than Eve from his rib. They had two sons Able and Cain. How did there wives come about and who did they have children with. My Boss thinks it was Eve since God created adam and eve and that is how human became in excitendenc. Does that meae Cain and Able haid kids with Eve or there Sisters. Then she said what about Noah. God flooded the earth and only Noahs Family was on the ar. So once agian they had to populated the earth with family from family. Right. She has me confussed. So why does God look down on Homsexuality but in the beggining condone insice. Does this make since or am I off base. Please help me and Casy understand. We are really not understanding this whole thing. We did ask some people and they saif Faith. That does not help me. I trust and respect everyones opinon

Thank you all for your advice. We went to church on Sunday and it was not easy. We had a couple over after church which we always do. My husband tryed to talk to the Pastor. The Pastor even said didn't you have your accident laast week. My husband was like 2 weeks ago and Im still not back to work. People came up to us and the opnes that did not know where surprized. So since e-mail is his way of contact I sent him an e-mail on how I was feeling. That was yesterday. I asked him to give us a call and set up a time to come and talk to us. No phone call or e-mail yet from him. I really feel like why bother. Is god really there. Everytime we attend a Church we get burt. I thinking maybe I need to just have church at home. This whole church thing is not working. If anyone has read my testomny they would see my first bad experence with the church was when my Father left my Mother for another lady in the church. I think if Pastor does not get back I am done with it! But thanks for your advice. I feel at least loved here, For whoever asked if I call members of the church the answer is Yes. Every Sunday when we are at Church we have a family from church over. So I don't know why this is happening. Maybe it is Satan. Anyway thanks for the LOVE I NEED IT>

Im not sure if this is where this should be posted or not. Here is my situation. My husbam nd and I have been members of our church for 5 years. Our churuch has gone though alot. We lost our pastor to cancer our assoiet pastor moved our churuch was flooded and we lost that. We have a new Pastor for two years. He does things different. Myhusband who is older and was close the the pastor we lost has not quite found his way or should I say really cliclk. We have had a bad bad month. Hve not been in Church. My husband was in an accident had surgery our cat died I have been pulling doubles at work. Nobody from the church has called or asked us how we were. I called the pastor he did not pray over the phone with my husband. When ever someone is sick or in the hospital he post an email about it. No one at church even new about or hered of our situation. I just went on line and received a email about someone else being sick. And a emial saying we missed you sunday. My husband can not read so does not go on line and my email has been down. Which we told the church. Am I being pettie. We are hurting and need to be up lifted. I have called Pastor he talks about us reachhing out to each other and help in the time of need. Well we are in need. It took a long time for my husband to come to the Lord. He can not believe no one has called to see how his surgery went and how we are and is there anything anyone can do. I hate to sound petti. Someone give me advice on what to do.

Hi, As most of you know I had a stroke but the underline from that is called Tardive dyskinesia which happens to you after long period of using different types of Med, Mainly phycotheriputic. I was on a Med fo 9 Mon high does and told them I was stopping becaue I did not like the side affects no one told me tnot to sto nor did anyone tell me what this drug could do to you if on for a long time. I spoke to somepne who was on 25mg at nite I told her I was ON 200 mg twice a day. Now this women is much bigger than me at least half my sie. So is it wrong to sue. the pharmacteical They are now taken thid drug of the market. Would I be A Godly Women for doing this. The doctors say I will never be the same agian. Need Godly advice and scriptures to back up

I am still praying your husband will seek medical advice and his fear of money will leave. I am praying for you sister

Sometimes Men are like babies when it comes to this. I know mine is. stubbord as can be. If he is in pain and can not get up tell him either he goes willing or you will call and ambulance to take him there. Or make a doctors appt. for him and don't give him an option. Tell him there is no discussion and that's that. I know where I live there are clinics or the ER you don't have to pay right away and there is finacally help for those that can not pay. Tell him it will coast more to barrie him than it will to go ,get check. I will pray that he will go.

This too shall Pass Im ok cause God don't make Junk Nothing is to difficult for God

I have asked this question befor and my kids asked me. I told them I belive our pets will be in heaven because why would God save the animals in the flood. And when Jesus comes back for the Church he will be riding a white Horse. I also know when Im hurting and I cuddle to my pet He sence how I'm feeling.

Okay. I see where you're coming from here. And I have to agree with you. The school is responsible for ensuring safety to both the students and staff. If there are students in the school that cannot handle having sports equipment as such, it is their responsibility to replace them with safer equipment. While a mental disability is an excuse for this behaviour, it is not an excuse for the schools behaviour. Your child deserves to be safe in school, and if this school cannot provide that, I suggest you look elseware. However, I would wait until the meeting you have set up with the school to decide whether or not you are going to seek legal assistance. Take your time and really pray about this matter- let the Lord show you what you should do. sierra Thanks Sierra you just confirmed what my husband I and our Pastor were talking about. Im keeping William home until the 24th Im going give TLC that only a Mom can give at times like this. And to everyone who has been praying for this situation Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Heres the situation I don't know if I mention in my Prayer request that william is in a school for those who are mental retarted. So the kid who did this is a special needs child. I must pray for him to I found out this moring he had a pshicatric(Sorry spelling) break down from this insident. He is now in the mental hospital for children. So im not blaming the boy. I am blaming the school because these kids should be better monitor. The clinical worker on my sons case said he is going to gather all the information and reports on all the insidents since June. I just feel the school should be responable for my sons injureys. I do have a meeting set up for Oct. 24th in that meeting will be superindent, Chair person for Special eduacation teacher, head person in my sons dorm, pshcyitric, nurse and my husband and my self. I just want to handle this right. But I must tell You I am proud of my Son he told me Mommy I forgive robert for what he did. Just like you taught me to. Im still mad about it.

Hi, I was wondering if it is wrong to sue? As you might know my son William got hit in the head with a baseball bat on Monday. It was on purpose He had to get stiches. Before that 4 weeks ago he had his front teeth knocked out of his mouth. They clame it was an accident. The teeth were saved and he has a brace on to keep them in place. Back in June there were two insidents that he had a black eye. William is home now we picked him up last nite late. He has seisours from the truam he had when he was little. William is adopted he came to us at age 4 we adopted him at age 9. My son has come a long way and for right now he seems to be taking a step backwords. He got really mad last night and punched a wall. I am suppose to be hearing from the school today to set up a meeting on what is going to be done. So my question is should I sue for the medical and emotional state. Or am I to just not do anything a find a different school. I do not know what to do. I want to handel this matter in a godly way.

Yes! Thank You I have been looking for this song for awhile and just decided to ask. Thanks for your help agian. Your a blessing

Not sure where to post this so if it's in the wrong place let me know. I really want to sing this song in church but I don't remember the title or all the words maybe somebody can help, I think it's called You gave me love: You gave me time when no one gave me time of day. You heard my dreams while the rest of the world closed it's ears. you touched my heart you touched my soul you help me start all over agian. Chourse : That's why I love you Jesus. That's why I'll always care. You touched my heart you touched my soul and help me start all over again. ooh that's why i love you Jesus that's why I'll always care cause you gave me love when nobody gave me a prayer. Anyway that's the ideal of the song if anyone knows the words to this and can help me out I would apprecate it. I think it is from the 80's or 70's

I struggle with this question and wanted to post it my self the other day but thought some of you might have thought I was stupid for not really knowing. heres my thoughts I accepted the lord in 1982 in 1985 I walked away I came back to the Lord time and time again since but I have been faithful serving him for 4years now. So when I asked Jesus in my heart in 1982 he saved me right? what about the years I did not follow him was I saved than and just not walking and he keep me safe over the years. Or did I become resaved when I rededicated my life to him? Other people have asked me this question and I just don't know. I would be afraid if I died during a sin because we all sin right? So if I die during a sin am I not saved at that point? Im really confused about this and need some input on this matter. Backup with scriptures will help best