As I have said before, I am a church pastor and also do quite a bit of evangelism.
Therefore, there are a lot of people who know me and what I stand for, this makes for an extreme inbalance. While there are many who know me, I can not possibly know each and every person that I come in contact with. Please bear with me while I try to explain my problem, I know the answer and what I am going to do but I would still like some advice.
I have owned a particular car for quite some time. I saw it, really liked it, caught the wife at work one day and bought it. I drove it for about a year. Everyone really thought it was ugly, but I found it to be very unique and in top shape too, I might add. Anyway, with a family, and about four other vehicles besides, reluctantly I put it up for sale. I don't need it, I just like it. Well, enough about that, let's get to the problem that I have.
Today, a guy called me about the car, he didn't even know what kind it was, he just said that he needed a car to drive to work.
He said that he knew me and that he had been to the church that I had previously pastored and also had been to other services that I preached in.
So, he tried to explain to me who he was and all the people that he knew, trying to find a connection, but that didn't help much.
He's very interested in the car but doesn't have all the money and really needs a car or so he says.
He wants me to take half the money tomorrow and the rest in weekly payments until paid in full.
This is a problem, I don't know him and I don't want to get taken, but I also know the Lord and what He would do, I think.
If I don't let him take the car and it turns out that he really is a good guy, then this, I believe, would hurt my reputation badly, especially since he knows a lot of people who know me.
If I do let him have the car on these terms and I don't get paid, he would be hurting himself more than me. I don't use the car anyway, I haven't used it in over a year, so I really wouldn't be out anything. It's just the thought of being cheated that bothers me.
Any advice?
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