browneyedgirl2

I am sorry for your loss... One thing, it doesn't take but just a minute to ask GOD to save you... Who knows in the last few minutes of his life, that he didn't ask... Just comfort yourself with that... I lost a brother at 35 from a massive heart attack, and I wondered about him... But he lived, though in a coma for 10 days before he died....Who knows what transpired before he died.... We can hope.... God bless you and yours... Not to give you false hope, but we really can't say what happens in a person's heart and soul.... Some that we "just know" are saved, maybe not be...

Thank you all for your responses. I agree that kissing can lead to other things and quickly if it is allowed to. I think it is a sweet way for a couple to show affection to each other, but I think it has to be with caution... I realize that passion can flair quickly when you really love someone... GOD bless you each one... riel, I love your username. Great choice.

A friend of mine sent me this quesion to ask here. She said she was in a discussion with other Christian singles recently and the subject of kissing came up. One person stated he felt kissing before marriage was as wrong as premarital sex. What do you think about it? I agree with my friend that Kissing is just a way for a dating man and woman to show affection to each other. Now we agree that you have to be careful not to put yourself into a situation where kissing leads to other things. But I'm not talking about going that far. I'm interested in your thoughts. We also agree that kissing on a first date with a stranger is not a good idea, but it it's someone that you've known a long time there isn't anything wrong with it...Thanks.

Thank you very much HIS girl... I am really praying about this, and about the timing to talk to him... I feel it will be soon and I'll know one way or the other. Thank you for your kind replies and your prayers.

Thank you very much HIS girl... I am really praying about this, and about the timing to talk to him... I feel it will be soon and I'll know one way or the other. Thank you for your kind replies and your prayers.

I have to share this with you all since I had shared all the other stuff... I saw Jay, Saturday night, and we hugged and spoke... He (sings professonally--gospel) was busy with other people, so I went and sat down and waited for him to free up, I knew he would come to me... As he started over to where I sat, someone stopped him and he stood and talked to them... As they moved on, our eyes met, and he smiled the sweetest, most beautiful smile I've ever seen, (and he has a beautiful smile) and happiness and love just bubbled out all over him... The look on his face and in his eyes for me, was enough to make me swoon... He came straight to me and touched my arm and was going to sit next to me, when someone else caught his attention. I've known Jay for a lonnnnnnggggg time, and I've never seen love like I saw on him Sat. night... I was the object of that look and that love.... It was like he couldn't stop it, it just came bubbling out all over him... In his voice---every way... I've never seen any thing like that from him before... BUT, I sure want to see it again... I had on an outfit that he particuliarly likes, so I know he thought I looked good... Yall just keep helping me pray that it won't be too long... Thanks, I'll update ya as I can...

Aw, you're so right, I would have loved it, and you did great telling it... Thanks for sharing it with me. I do seek God, and I do put him first in my life. The love of my heart does too, I guess I'm just tired of waiting even though things are so much better with us. I'm ready now, and he says he is. SO what's the hold up? I guess only God can answer that. Thanks for all your replies.

Wow, what a wonderful testimony..... Ain't GOD good???? That was awesome... Thank you for sharing that, as I needed to hear the first thing written on the sticky note... GOD does NOT lie... WHOO HOO thank you, Ineeded that right this minute... Double duty is what your friend did... Helped YOU and helped me!!!!!

Rudy190, I really would like to have seen that, but for some reason, my system will not load... It just rolls and rolls and rolls... I can't watch anything on YouTube or any type of video... It sounds like it is something that I would really appreciate.... I've longed for a husband and family since I was a little girl... I can remember playing "house" with my dolls and all. I was fortunate to have a large room that was built for me, that was my playhouse... It was "MY HOUSE" and my parents have told me many times how I would talk about "My Husband." I try not to get ahead of GOD, but I am tired of waiting... I have met someone who I love with all my heart, and he allows me so close, and then he backs off.... GOD is IN this relationship, so I'm just waiting to see where it goes....

Cynthia McKinney does many stupid things to bring attention to HER!! I'm sorry about the supplies that didn't get to where they should have... Why was she even on board???

I thank you every one for your replies.... I will keep you updated... I feel really good about Jay and me now... It's been a long time coming, but many things have happened and there had to be healing to take place for both of us. And it is happening...

Jay told me he loved me, with NO prompting from me... We talked via email about two or three hours.. I feel much better about us now... much better.. Praise the Lord....

That is one of my pet peeves... It doesn't take but a minute to say, I'm praying. Instead of just the little smilie. That's not a personal against anyone..

I've seen my love several time recently and it's been good every time. Not only when we are together, but after we've gone our separate ways, we've talked on the phone, or emailed every day. I do praise the Lord for that... He knows the true desires of my heart.

Yes I believe that we can have this line of communication between each other as human beings, and with God in the spiritual realm. I can't explain why we don't get a instant answer when we pray or we immediately know what to do in a given situation, that is something I truly would like to know. I can tell when something is wrong with someone that I love, and not have talked to him for days. We live several hours apart but I know when something is going on that isn't right. It amazes us that I can sense that. We just have a spiritual bond that I've never shared with anyone before. With the Lord, we should have that same Spiritual Bond and if we don't we aren't walking where we should be. Or there is something that is hindering that bond... This is just my opinion. Be interesting to read what more Bible based scholars have to say.